Freud makes a claim for the formation of femininity through his explanation of psychical development during child sexuality. He explains that he does not wish to give an account for who a women is but only how she becomes feminine from her bisexual tendencies. Freud femininity theory raises speculation since develops it within the context of masculinity. He claims a girl’s turning point in her sexuality is when she realizes she has been castrated and develop a penis envy. This raises concerns since it automatically places the male, at least the male organs, at a hierarchal advantage.
Sex and relationships are some things that we should not be afraid of, but rather embrace them both as a part of our culture. Plato’s symposium tells the story of how we came to be in our genders. In the myth men, women, and hermaphrodites were a part of one being, and they all had the genitals of their perspective gender. However, due to the being’s arrogance, Zeus punished them and split the beings apart; the being’s parts did not want to be separated, so they sought to find the half that was with them when they split because they were in such deep lust and love with their companion. The feeling of both lust and longing to be with one another is an idea that has long been around since our time.
She thinks this is a normal act, but for him, it is sanctity. John believes that one should only express their passion through sex if they are married as is the custom on the reservation. This leads John to call Lenina many obscene names and to send her into the tender arms of soma instead. She merely wishes him to reciprocate her advances, which she would take as meaning that he was happy to be with her. She simply wants the both of them to be joyous in their carnal revelry but “Happiness is a hard master – particularly other people 's happiness.
While Andrew Marvell takes the approach of the typical carpe diem poem, taking the position of a man who feels his mistress should give him sex simply because of the lack of time he has to show her his love, and his seize the day mentality. What could be more of a testament to love than love-making itself? Some would say that these men were looking out for their pleasures when persuading their lovers into the bed chamber, but really Andrew Marvell and John Donne were just terribly honest about their intentions and reasoning a man of this era would have for wanting to have sex, while using their witty dialectical arguments to get their way. The major similarity between John Donne and Andrew Marvell is the honesty in their approaches to sleeping with their lovers. The Norton Anthology: English Literature gives a summary of John Donne’s work as follows: “John Donne’s poems abound with startling images, some of them exalting and others grotesque.
He learned his role and his label by looking to others to know how to be “be gay”. Gay men are portrayed as more feminine and lesbians as more masculine because society labels how a person should act when they’re attracted to a particular gender. For a homosexual man or woman in society, the archetypes are conflicting and they end up being forced to make a clean-cut choice between masculine or feminine
In conclusion, we see that through certain social stigma, such as masturbation and oral sex, as well as through the concepts of the male being the gift giver, and the act of penetration focusing on the penis, society gives little importance to the female orgasm. In terms of heterosexual relationships it is important for the female to be open with her partner in informing him of what is needed to increase her sexual pleasure, which will help bring her to orgasm as well. Society has placed a great importance on orgasms in relationships, especially in terms of the male, and as a result we have found ways to ensure this is satisfied through faking it, sex toys, and different sexual acts.
Assumptions have been made that homosexuals base their sexual preference just on the pleasure of sex, and sometimes are misconstrued as perverts because of this. On the contrary, homosexual couples, like heterosexuals, form deep emotional attachments, ‘fall in love’, and remain loyal to a single partner. Researchers have found that “Being denied the right to marry reinforces the stigma associated with a minority sexual identity and that living in a state where same-sex marriage is outlawed can lead to chronic social stress and mental health problems.” (http://www.apa.org) Everyone has a sexual preference. There are a million people in America who take part in romantic same sex relationships who live among us, and work among us... ... middle of paper ... ...ientation Harassment & Discrimination." Sexual Orientation Discrimination Attorney St. Paul.
Whereas if children understood sex they wouldn’t react so negatively when they realize that their parents and grandparents are still having sex, but with the way we were raised to appreciate young bodies and live ignorantly than appreciate that our parents and grandparent... ... middle of paper ... ...men and women are treated for their sexual interest it’s because of the components of their scripts. Men’s script emphasizes sex over intimacy where as women’s scripts emphasizes feelings over sex. As all ways men are held in higher regards then women because they are masculine and courageous whereas women are thought to be damsel in distress and emotional. I believe this goes back to the old days when women were to stay at home and keep the house and children up while men provided for his family. I feel people haven’t realized that times have changed and women can do anything a man can even have sexual feeling without being a slut.
According to Feud, human beings are born with unfocused sexual libidinal d... ... middle of paper ... ...osexuality in women results from the unconscious mind of a person. In addition, Freud belief that homosexual cannot be converted to heterosexual once it is developed. On the other hand, Jung presents his arguments basing on the idea that homosexuality is caused by the spirits. This is because it is believed that homosexuals have both male and female soul. These spirits are the ones that drive an individual to be attracted to a person of the same sex.
Mercutio also relates love to sex and he thinks of it as a dirty sexual game. "If love be rough with you, be rough with love: prick love for pricking, and you beat love down" In this quotation Mercutio is saying teach love a lesson, don't worry about love. Use sex to forget about love. The nurse also has a sexual view on love; her views are slightly different from Mercutio's, because she believes that the passionate side of love should mean something. The Nurse thinks that once you are married and you have had sex with your new husband you will know what love is.