Self Image Monster Essay

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When we think about monsters, we all come up with one common thought. We think of a large, terrifying beast that most likely has sharp teeth, demonic eyes, and the strength of a thousand men. Frightening yes, but I think we actually prefer this image for a few reasons. The biggest one being that this deadly, mythical creature is just that: a myth. It is simply a character in a story and it will never actually harm us. I love this mindset as much as the next person but unfortunately, it is completely untrue. The fact of the matter is monsters are real; and to make matters worse, we all carry one in our minds. It is called ‘the self-image monster’. Many of you might be wondering how on earth our self-image could be a monster, after …show more content…

We are taught that the only way to get ahead in life is to mind those rules about looks, fashion, and diet and follow them exactly as instructed. In addition to that, we learn that there is no cost too high when it comes to seeking perfection, but few seem to realize just how damaging the consequences can be. When we start developing a desire to achieve this unattainable standard, the poor self-image monster gains the ability to manifest itself in our minds in many ways, and not just by making us feel bad about our figures. It can cause us to have depression, develop a tolerance of abusive relationships, commit to self-mutilation, and have many more harmful mental issues. To me this is what makes it a monster, something that is harmful and destructive and if we are not careful, we will unwillingly give it permission to take over and thrive, therefore, destroying us and even those around us completely. In the introduction of the book Monsters we learn that the etymology of the word monster means warning. (Blake and Cooper 3). As a society, we need to heed the warnings that we see manifested in our young people today. Television and movies are moving towards this somewhat, but the pendulum seems to swing from one extreme to the other. We need to build a healthy self-image in our world that says we are valuable. One that says we are worthy to exist and to be loved. A self image that says we are beautiful just the way we

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