Self And Self-Concept: The Boundaries Of The Self

Introduction

Forney et al stated that ‘’personal concern’’ distinguish between the boundaries of self and the social world and involve preference and choice related to friendly, activities, physical, self and privacy. (Smetana, 1999) A steady view of boundaries of the self is explored through the concept that influence self-esteem and behavior (Vander Zanden, 1988). The moral domain is conceptually and developmentally and developmentally distinct from social conventions and mental domain. In essay I am going to link various theories associated with concept as follow self-esteem, self-perception and self-worth. Self-concept

Self-esteem is a factual description of how you perceive yourself. If your perception

For instance “I don’t have sense of perseverance’’. it can be statement of fact without feel good or bad.

Significant Other

Self-concept is significantly affect or impact me from the childhood to the adulthood. I was grown up my parent nagging telling me that I am so slowly by all my actions. That was made me believe I am the most slowly human in world, so in whatever I am doing I believe if it will take a while to be done because I’ve been used to be criticized by slowly. That was affect my self-concept negatively because I now believe in myself negatively.

Secondly my brothers and sister were used to insult me about how I look like, I am the ugliest human they ever had I grown up with that ideology of telling myself that I am the ugliest human in the world. In my adolescent I was cowardly afraid to plead relationship from girls as my friends was doing because I believe that they won’t accept my proposal due to that ugliest

A person with low self-esteem feel unworthy, incapable, and incompetent, in fact the person with low self-esteem feel so poorly about him or herself, these feelings may actually cause the person’s continued low self-esteem.(Monica A. Frank, 2015)

Nevertheless high self-esteem is the condition where individual gain worth from others. That is to believe to yourself the most without any one’s presence, or without influence of others.

Significant other

Self-esteem is determined in part by the individual aspects of him/ herself by what the individual aspects of him / her by what significant others expect of the individual and by feedback from significant (Nox, Funk, Eliot,& Bush, 1998 Robenberg,1979). For instance was expected me to not respond when they are shouting even if I did nothing wrong that was affecting me negatively because I was not allowed to respond, my confidence of didn’t do something wrong was deprived. To be able to defend my self is a self-esteem to me because I’m so perfect in defending myself. I was even not allowed to notified them if they doing something wrong or made