Robert Hayden poem ”Those Winter Sundays” explores his father as an unsung hero and it also presents an acknowledgement of poets lack of gratitude for his father. The speaker reflects on the childhood memories of his father and goes on to find all kinds of disabilities he had in terms of realization regarding the pain father bared for the poet. Story is very emotional in the way that the speaker reveals sacrifices of his father during his childhood throughout the poem. It is agonizing and the words used in the poem are really an expression of desperation and sadness as he is really missing that time. There are a number of sacrifices made by the father during the harsh winter season of writer’s childhood. In his childhood he was not actually aware about the harshness of those lovely and affectionate feelings that his father had about him. In the poem ”Those Winter Sundays” Robert Hayden uses imagery and sound devices to portray his father as an unsung hero and to acknowledge his own lack of gratitude
“Those Winter Sundays” depicts the speaker’s childhood memory of Sunday church mornings. The speaker explains that his father, despite having to work outside the rest of the week to provide for his family, would go outside early mornings to retrieve firewood to heat the home. Only when the heat from the fire would warm the whole house and he polished his son’s church shoes, would the speaker’s father wake the family from their slumber. No one showed their appreciation for this action that displayed the father’s love for his family. The speaker shows deep self-reproach from his indifference toward his father, which he concludes was from being young and naïve.
"Those Winter Sundays" is a very touching poem. It is written by Robert Hayden who has written many other poems. This paper will talk about the poem "Those Winter Sundays". In particular we will look at the structure, main idea, and each stanza of the poem.
In the poem “Those Winter Sundays” the author, Robert Hayden, uses descriptive and colloquial diction to further emphasize the harsh and lonely tasks his father performed to show the love he had for his son in an unconventional way. Hayden uses cacophonous words such as “cracked”, “splintering”, “ached” and “banked” to stress the stark chores his father did without being asked or thanked. Instead of traditional displays of affection like hugs and kisses, his father is humble when doing gritty work to support his family. The author also uses concrete and denotative words when describing everything his father did up until the last line where he uses abstract words such as “love”, “austere” and “lonely”. This further demonstrates the limited perspective
Through contrite diction in “Those Winter Sundays”, Robert Hayden conveys a regretful tone. The first sentence starts with in media res suggesting that the son is reflecting on his father’s past actions. The pain his father endured, the sacrifices he made. “Sundays too my father got up early,” reveals that not only did his father get up early on Sundays, but every other day as well. The narrator’s father slaved away daily in the brutal weather, his hands “blueblack” with frostbite and “no one ever thanked him.” Not even his own son. For that, the son feels shameful and most of all, regretful. In addition to taking his father for granted, the son also spoke indifferently to his father. He treated his father like a stranger, just another human
It can be concluded that in “Those Winter Sundays” the speaker is a naïve, ungrateful child that grows up to be a parent himself, and is in turn dealing with his naïve, ungrateful children. However, being a parent is a thankless task. The speaker utilizes connotative diction to infer his attitude towards his father, the circumstances that led him to thinking about this, and how it
As one gets older, their insight on life widens and gives them realization of things that seemed to not matter in life have great importance. The poem “Those Winter Sundays” by Robert Hayden illustrates a son reminiscing of his childhood when he is older. The readers can see the small acts the main character's father did never proved to be anything special to the son when he was younger, but when he grew up he realized that the small things exemplified his love for his family. Hayden’s diction and detail emphasizes the sons regret of never understanding his father until he got older.
Love is not just a feeling, but a commitment and sacrifice as well. In “Those Winter Sundays”, author Robert Hayden tells the story of a hardworking father waking up in the cold to kindle a fire, while his indolent son ungratefully slumps from his warm bed. The relationship between these two show that love can be shown in a variety of ways, but the diction and figurative language used by Hayden convey that sacrifice is the most subtle approach.
Abuse is a difficult and sensitive subject that can have long lasting effects. These traumatic emotional effects are often intensified if the abuse happens at a young age because children do not understand why the abuse is happening or how to deal with it. There are many abuse programs set up to counter the severe effects which abuse can have. Even more, poets and writers all over the world contribute works that express the saddening events and force the public to realize it is much more real than the informative articles we read about. One such poem is Theodore Roethke’s My Papa’s Waltz which looks carefully through the eyes of a young boy into the household of an abusive father. Robert Hayden’s Those Winter Sundays is a similar poem from the perspective of a young adult reflecting back on the childhood relationship with his father and the abuse his father inflicted. These poems are important because they deal with the complex issues surrounding the subject of abuse and also show the different ways which children react to it. My Papa’s Waltz and Those Winter Sundays are similar poems because they use tone, imagery, and sounds and rhythms to create tension between the negative aspects of abuse and the boys own love and understanding for their father.
The speakers in “My Papa’s Waltz” and Those Winter Sundays” talks about the relationship between their fathers. The different is that “My Papa’s Waltz” is a poem that speaks directly to the father, but “Those Winter Sundays” specks about the father. Both Theodore Roethke the writer of “My Papa’s Waltz” and Robert Hayden writer of “Those Winter Sundays”, are two semi-similar poems about the respected of the fathers. The father is not just the man that gave him life, but a person that spends time taking care of them. By doing this, he gains the love and respect of the writers. Both speakers of each poem talks about their admiration of their father for their actions that they did for them; although, they both understand they were not perfect.
The differences between “Those Winter Sundays” by Robert Hayden and “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke poems is noticeable, and their similarities aren’t noticeable. Thus, Theodore Roethke and Robert Hayden describe the relationship a father and son and the way they communicate. Yet, these two relationships could not be more different. In the Roethke’s poem, the speaker had a strong and positive relationship with his father that couldn't be expressed as well as Hayden's relationship with his father. In fact, the fathers’ ability to communicate with their sons was physically, rather than verbally. Also, both poems use negative aspects, fatherly love, and understanding for their father. In Theodore Roethke’s “My Papa’s Waltz” describes the
Love, commonly referred to the beauty in materialistic affection, is sometimes rather a sacrificial element in which physical and mental warmth is difficult to find. “Those Winter Sundays” by Robert Hayden relays a speaker who reflects remorsely upon his/her adolescent perspective and treatment toward his/her father. However, as an adult, the speaker realizes the father’s love even though it was not in a direct for love comes in different forms. Hayden specific employment of details, imagery, figurative language, symbolism, and diction conveys the central message of love’s sacrifice in this poem.
In Hayden’s, Those Winter Sundays, the father plays a key role in his his child’s life. The father showed his child love though he never verbally said it. He was an hard working man that did things without question, but did allow his actions to speak louder then his words. Hayden writes, “Sundays too my father got up early and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold, then with cracked hands that ached from labor in the weekday weather made banked fires blaze. No one ever thanked him”(783). Though kids don’t see the bigger picture, such as the parent putting a roof over their head, or waking up early in the morning to make sure the the house is warm enough for them. It show two different types of loves that take play in the poem, with the father showing his love visually, but his child seeking the love verbally or even physically like a hug.
Robert Hayden’s “Those Winter Sundays” depicts a man remembering and examining his childhood. The speaker recalls how his father worked tirelessly despite receiving no recognition or appreciation. The father continued to labor everyday for his family because the strength of his love overpowered the despair of the thankless job that his son could not understand.
The central conflict in Robert Hayden’s poem “Those Winter Sundays”, is the unfortunate realization that the speaker never truly thanked or appreciated his father’s sacrifices when he was a child. After growing up, taking on responsibilities, and achieving a rehabilitated understanding of the world through experience, Hayden expresses his ingratitude that often accompanies with youth. The first line of the first stanza writes, “Sundays too my father got up early/and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold” (Hayden, 17). Out of these two lines, the word “too” is filled with importance because Sunday’s are dedicated to either religious practices, or rest for a working man. Fortunately, this was not his father’s case as his father would wake up early in order to perform his loving and self-sacrificing duties.