If the person is pessimistic and believe in external locus of control, then they think their life is totally controlled by other people. They totally depend on others because they believe that they themselves cannot change their life. They believe in luck rather than their hard work. So, people who have low self-esteem, who rely too heavily on validation from external sources can easily lose control over their lives and never get success in their life. 2) Self-esteem plays very important role in a person’s success.
Failure teaches you to take risks in life People usually are not ready to take risks because they are scared of failure. They imagine the results and consequences before taking the first step. And, when you do not take the first step even, how can one say that he’ll fail or succeed. Once you take a risk and pursue your dream, no one can stop you. Not your failures even.
All humans wish to achieve greatness in life. Greatness varies from person to person and the thought of how one will reach success is what sets us all apart. The person with the most drive and willpower has the best odds. To look past the inevitable hard work and to look at the possible result is what it will take to keep one on task. The people who look at and fear the labor and hardship are those who will fail.
Many people don’t cherish life at all, doing drugs, committing crimes, summiting suicide, these people don’t value their time on this planet to make a difference but they are willing to ruin it just to “enjoy” it without thinking of the consequences. I believe that we should see life as a gift. The only price that would be put on life is the hospital bill and the estate tax on the US. To me life is time, if you don’t value the time that you dedicate to change the progress around you, then you haven’t seen the true value of life. Life has a big value in a way that it should ALWAYS be cherished.
Ethan was obligated to care for his wife Zeena until death, but his misguided decisions lead him to be concerned only with his immediate happiness. Much like Ethan in Ethan Frome, people who concentrate on personal happiness, without factoring in personal responsibility, set themselves up for a painful reality check. Only the ruthlessly devoted and heartless can make it to the top without feeling bad about who they knocked down to triumph. Ethan cant strive for a higher level of happiness because so many factors pull him down. To leave Starkfield with his love, Mattie, he would need more money than he can afford, and to get this he would be forced to lie and compromise his friendships.
Not all people have the strength to serve their country through military service or disciplined enough to be successfully obedient. Also without either of those qualities the zero fail policy is forfeit and that puts our country at risk. To be productive in the military you must be motivated by your own means to fully serve your cou... ... middle of paper ... ...over mandatory military service is not a productive choice. When you send your loved ones off to the military they never come back, the returning person will be different in ways or gone all together. Things that you had before are likely to be gone or changed so severely that it’s foreign to you.
Regrettably, most persons suffer in failure and in glamouring shame because they simply do not have the habit to persevere until their dreams and ideologies have been met. Perseverance plays a very important role to achieving success in your life. Without it, goal-setting is useless as you do not have what it takes to get you through the finish line. Perseverance is a trait, a behavior, a skill that can be learned like any other skill; attaning it, the sky would certainly be your limit. Life has many obstacles… but knowing the elements of obstacles; fear and failure, delay and disappointment; would help you in building your strength for perseverance and goal
Distraction is the number one cause of mistakes in our world today. Many people are afraid of making mistakes, so they play it safe in life and don’t strive to achieve everything they are capable of achieving. This is a very bad thing. People should not be afraid of the potential mistakes there are to be made. Instead, they should focus more on the great lengths they could go in life by pursuing their goals.
Christopher McCandless, an American traveler, once said “So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality, nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit.” This quote is far more universally applicable than originally thought to be. Throughout one’s life, one will undoubtedly experience some form of conformity. The driving factor in a majority of these moments is fear; fear of not fitting in, or of not living up to society’s expectations. The only thing that lets one escape conformity is the truth known from past experiences. This
heroes also persevere and take risks in order to achieve the their goal. Everybody has to start from somewhere, and typically a person who might become a hero, never starts out as one. Instead, they are very ordinary people. But almost always, they will need to take the risk of giving up an important part of their daily life. In the book The Alchemist