As a result, couples discover these things after getting married and realize that they won’t be happy and successful having financial troubles. This is when couples decide to divorce. Furthermore, some couples do not like to act as a couple and prefer to spend their money separately (Lee, 2013). They do not like to help each other when it comes to finances. This situation often leads to divorce, because couples are not able to achieve their future goals, since they are hiding their money businesses from each other (Lee, 2013).
There can be many factors that contrbute to divorce. The three main reasons behind divorce are: shortage of communication, cheating, and addiction. Lack of communication is a major cause of separation. When couples confront a problem, they don’t have the communication skills that could help them resolve the problem. In addition, due to work and other activities, husbands can fairly stay busy and away from their wives and children.
There are certain people who aren’t meant to fit into your life in the long-term no matter how much you want them to. Sometimes people come into your life to shake you up, tear apart your ego, flip your perspective, show your obstacles, break your heart and mind open. The cause of a breakup can be due to various reasons such as cheating, falling out of love, quarrelling or the lack of communication. First of all, cheating is not an option; it’s a choice that a lot of people choose. A person tends to cheat when they are not contented with their girlfriend or boyfriend.
When you lie, even if it is a small lie, you create a wave of distrust in the relationship. The more waves you create, the harder it is to keep the relationship steady. Eventually, if you create enough waves, your relationship will tip over and your partner will leave you to find a steadier relationship. I had one person tell me that they didn 't want to look bad in their partner 's eyes, so that 's why they lied to them. That 's a bunch of crap.
Many times though marriages break up and divorce because someone beliefs the other person is having an affair, it is not really based on facts. The main reasons people think their partners are having affairs is because of honest, or lack of, making assumptions and communication, and last but not least jealousy and insecurity. Honesty is the key to a relationship. Without honesty and trust it is hard for any relationship to survive. Many people think they are honest but yet they only tell part of a story, which makes it a lie.
In order to lie to the spouse and cheat on marriage vows, betray a spouse’s trust, and risk lo... ... middle of paper ... ...f-esteem tend to think their partner love them less than they really do, or fall out of love with them. It also can cause the spouse to stop communicating with his or her partner. The lack of communication that results can destroys a relationship in many different of ways. They stop talking as often as they use too he or she also thinks that their partner come frustrated with him or her because she feels he does understand and support another. But in a relationship that lacks discussion, resentment grows like a virus.
Cheating can cause someone to have a mental break down, and leads to a complete loss of respect. When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option; loyalty is everything. I used to think that cheating could improve relationships and make things better, but in reality it only creates more conflicts such as trust issues. You won’t know who to trust. Being in a relationship is about staying committed to that individual, not going around behind each other’s backs seeing other people.
It may also lead to death if not discovered and treated in time. It is stressing and upsetting for anyone to learn that their loved one suffers from the disorder (Shepphird 32). It is even more traumatizing if it involves a partner, in this case, one’s girlfriend. It is even more heartbreaking if any attempt to assist bears no or little fruit. This is because even with the evident effects, most people will still try to hide from their partners.
They lack self-control and respect for both themselves and their spouse. Any situation where they are left alone with the opposite sex is an opportunity for an “accident” to occur. It was shocking to find out that most cases of infidelity occur with couples who are less than twenty -five years old, one would have thought early marriages where happy and care free (figure one). The second form of adultery is the Romantic Affair. This is usually considered the most disruptive affair because it involves such intense feelings and is a big threat to a marriage.
Sometimes, your friends and family go against you because divorce is still sometimes seen as socially immoral. On top of that, people also fear being alone. After being in a relationship with someone, no matter how long, you grow accustomed to them and recognizing that they will no longer be there, is hard to accept. For this reason, many millennials are deciding not to take the emotional risk and commit to marriage, because they are afraid of committing and then being left alone with a shattered heart and broken