Relating Erikson’s Eight Stages to My Life

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Many of our temperament traits are evident at birth. However, other characteristics such as trust, guilt and competency are learned based upon our life experiences and the support we receive as we grow and develop. Based upon his research, Erikson became aware of the influence maturation and social demands have on behavior and ultimately on our development. He believed these two forces "push[ed] humans everywhere through…[a set of] eight psychosocial crises" (Sigelman, C. & Rider, E., 2009, pg.332). He organized life into eight stages that extend from birth to death. Erikson's first psychosocial conflict is trust versus mistrust. This stage begins at birth and continues until about one year of age. The central issue that infant’s resolve in this stage is "Can I trust others?" (Sigelman, C. & Rider, E., 2009, pg.332). Erikson (2009) believed infants learn to trust other people if their needs are satisfied by their caretakers. If a caregiver is unresponsive to the infants needs and they go un-met "the balance of trust…will tip in the direction of mistrust" (Sigelman, C. & Rider, E., 2009, pg.332). Through resolving this issue of trust and mis-trust, Erikson believed infants "begin to recognize that they are separate from the caregivers who respond to their needs…[and] begin to distinguish self from others"(Sigelman, C. & Rider, E., 2009, pg.332). Research in child development supports this stage and has shown that 2 to 3 month old infants do begin to distinguish themselves from their caretakers. Erikson believed "for development to proceed optimally, a healthy balance between the terms of of each conflate must be struck" (Sigelman, C. & Rider, E., 2009, pg.332). Therefore, it is important to development to have a s... ... middle of paper ... ...ns…[and have] a more realistic concept of goals" (Rice &Dolgin 2002). I entered the identity-achieved stage a few years after I graduated from college. When I first graduated from college I was still in the moratorium stage, because I was still trying to find out what I career I wanted. I had already come to terms with who I was as a person and had set my ideological identity, however I still could not determine what I wanted out of my career. While working in a library, I realized this was what I wanted to do for the rest of my life. Now I know who I am and what I want out of life. I have determined what my career goals and the things that I need to do to achieve them. I am knowledgeable of the strengths I personally posses. While I am aware I posses limitations, I know how to work around them and I rely on my strengths to over come these limitation.

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