Reflection Of The Everyday Use

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A character you may build when in process of making a better self or a life event has changed you. Sometimes we may just want a better version of ourselves to be liked or we forget who we once were. As I saw this happening to Dee in “Everyday Use” reading when she lost herself after leaving home and marrying to a wealthy man. I can see the sister rivalry between her and Maggie the same as my sister and I. One always wanting more and the other not knowing what to do next; or wanting similar attention and affection from our mother. Even though we did not grow up together for a few years the time we did spend was always fun as children. My sister as the elder one and I the young child with seven years apart was usually difficult to get along, but now as adults has made it even harder. From reading “The everyday Use” I see how Dee made drastic changes to herself and personality when leaving home; even though she comes across as up-tight I understand her way of being to a certain level. I relate to this story from my troubles with my own sibling and how I am possibly seen as this character from her eyes. I relate to Dee’s character because of her ambition, dreams, …show more content…

All reading pieces have had amazing stories, livelihood, and different ways of plot presentation. I have enjoyed all three stories in this chapter from mystery, interpretation and tragedy. I have been left with great lessons about women during different time periods and how one small prophecy can ruin a family for a lifetime. As my favorite piece was defiantly “Trifles” because of its mystery and leaves one wanting to know more about the story. “A Doll House” has made me think about what marriage may be like and if men have really changed in today’s world about their pride. All authors to create these playwrights have had great talent, creativity and spirit as all have inspired me to more interested in

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