Reflection Of A Family: The Connections Of My Family

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Mychal Taylor English Comp 1 The Connection When growing my mother has always told me "Do unto others only what you want to be done to you". This simple phrase has shaped my life in my family ever since then. I am the gopher, responsible one, and the ok guy in my generation. My role in my family is the nice guy. I am that guy who helps everyone no matter who you are or what you did. My family are the one 's who connect everyone by finding out how we as a family are connected and connecting us by various forms of communication. We are the connectors of our family who are trying to make us a better and more connected family. I am Mychal Taylor and these are my reflections on my family When growing up, My mother was a very important guide to me being a respectful young man. She has been the one who demands strictness and family involvement.Mom wants that sense of being a teacher and loves to teach her family She has connected her side of the family by researching many uncles and aunts on her side of the family. The people she finds often tell her stories of how they are connected to us. The are always trying to put them as good people seeing as we will tell the others about them. She told me to always be nice to others even when they are lying to us to make them sound good. Family …show more content…

They try there best to do this with countless thing they do and say. My family wants me to be the best guy I can be. That person is always changing in their minds but always they say be who you want be. These words and stories I know are memories told from all family lines. I feel like the stories that come from my family that I know of are always stories that encourage me to become someone better, smarter and nicer than the person who told them the same words. I wish to become this person who everyone is hoping their words help become. The stories they tell me come from ones who were nice enough to tell

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