Yes, people do like and enjoy my presence more because of my outgoing choices, but I am always left feeling ashamed and disappointed in myself. I am unable to find the strength inside to make my own choices in fear of disappointing the others I care about. I often avoid other forms of disappointment by doing everything as perfectly as possible. A strive for perfection will prevent disappointment in my eyes. When something goes wrong I often feel like I could have prevented it by doing something differently, more efficiently.
However, I have to agree and disagree with those results. Although I may be good-natured, sympathetic, and courteous, I am not forgiving when it comes to other people. I am very protective of my own feelings, and I do not forgive others easily (if ever). Forgiving has always been a hard thing for me to do because I am so nice and courteous to other
Everyday we wake up and prepare ourselves to face the day ahead. Some people find this simple task to be a very bothersome one, others not so much. Everyone sees life in a different light, and that’s what makes us, us. Compassion is a trait that many people tend to dismiss, for the simple fact of it is seen as a weakness, because of this I try my hardest to be the most compassionate person that I can be. Treating every person that you meet with kindness is very important because you never know what a person may be going through, or what a person has already been through.
Being respectful is a big part of me, I can never forget that, because if I want to be respected, I respect other people, to treat them the same way as I want to be treated, even if I think that I 'm not going to receive it back, and if I don 't, it shows that I 'm the bigger person. I guess that showing gratitude was one of the first thing that my parents showed me when I was younger, I always remember when I would receive something they would whisper in my ear or tell me to say "thank you" same thing if I wanted something, to say "please". To respect myself and not let others take
I have the weakness of not being able to let go of my past mistakes and I hold them over myself which sometimes makes me upset. I need to learn to let go of my past and to not get mad at myself over irrelevant things. Additionally, I have a strength in my social health. I am good at getting along with other people that I am friends and I make sure I am always there for them when they need me. I try to be nice to everyone and to help them through anything they need.
This means having those uncomfortable conversations, not just to be open, but because that is the only way, I believe, to help someone grow. Honesty with self is also crucial to a happy life; because I am able to see myself, as I truly am, not just all the imperfections. I have found that this is the biggest reason for my search of honesty; I have become tired of the constant putting down that I do to myself. There is nothing more that I would love more than to be productive, however, I halt all productivity when I live up in my head, only focusing on what seems to be the worst things that make me up. A true and honest self-evaluation will show me all that makes me, me, including all the amazing traits that I embody, already.
With my boyfriend, he seems to like a combination of the two with some added constructive brainstorming. I think that I’m also very approachable when it comes to relating to people. I always make it clear that I don’t know a person’s exact experience, but I do make an effort to try and see life from their perspective. I don’t invalidate people’s experiences and feelings even though sometimes it irritates me or even offends me what they
It helped me do well in school because I would have all that extra training with reading and writing. I learned that teaching someone helped me remember the material much better. I had her explain things to me just like I would to her. It helped me understand how hard it is to understand the English language because a lot of it does not make sense. I learned that I had should not talk normally to her because she does not understand, so I had to talk with basic English.
Her and her boyfriend are still together and I didn’t think that was very smart but if things don’t go well she’ll learn and I’ll be here for her. My youngest sister always has drama with her friends. One day they’re great buddies and next they say they don’t like each other and they won’t talk to her. I try to tell her what to do in those situations and how it’ll end up
In general, I am a very giving person, so even if my family or friends gave me something in return, I would not take it. I guess you can say that I have a lot of pride, but I give to people than to take from people. In addition, each random act of kindness that I accomplished, I changed everyone’s mood, which made their day better. I don’t think I did was life-changing, but I must progress in my kind-heartedness. One of my favorite quotes about kindness is from Liam Neeson, which he says, “I’m a big believer in acts of kindness, no matter how small”.