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Here is a number for you: 354,670. That is the number of women that were raped in 1995 (RAINN 1). That is equivalent of one woman being raped every two minutes (RAINN 1). Want more numbers?

“In the last two years, more than 787,000 women were the victim of a rape or sexual assault” (RAINN 1). And one more statistic that might get your attention is that only 37% of rapes are reported to the authorities (RAINN 2). Fortunately, there are ways to drastically reduce these numbers. For starters women need to know what constitutes rape. Second women need to know how to prevent rape before it starts, and lastly women need to know what to do if they are raped. According to the book Our Bodies Our Selves, rape is defined as “…any kind of sexual activity committed against a woman’s will” (Avery 135).

When a person says the word “rape”, people automatically think of a stranger jumping out of the bushes or chasing you down an ally. But, the most common form of rape is called acquaintance rape or date rape. Acquaintance rape is defined as “forced, manipulated or coerced sexual contact by someone you know” (gopher.uchicago 1). Acquaintance rape can occur by “someone you have just met, or dated a few times, or even with someone to whom you are engaged” (Hughes 1). Acquaintance rape accounts for about 60% of all rapes reported (Hughes 1).

According to Hughes, date rape usually occurs when a man and a woman are alone whether in a car or at home (2). Also drugs and alcohol sometimes play an important factor in date rape. “Many victims say later that they drank too much or took too many drugs to realize what was going on by the time ! they realized their predicament, it was too later” (Hughes 2). Another reason acquaintance rape occurs is mixed signals. For example, the woman acts friendly “…the man interprets this friendliness as an invitation to have sex” and when a woman says “no” she means “maybe” (Hughes 2).

The reason that men do this is because they are taught to be aggressive and controlling at an early age. Men need to realize that this attitude can lead to date rape and should not look at women as sex objects. Women need to be aware of men like this to prevent being raped. Since acquaintance rape and stranger rape can occur at any time, women should know how to prevent rape before it starts. There are many steps you can take to prevent being raped. The first ...

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... is very difficult to deal with on their own.

One organization that helps women deal with rape is the Rape, Assault, and Incest National Network (RAINN). They have a toll free number and will connect you to a shelter/counseling center in your area free of charge. There are many different forms of rape. There are many different things that you can do to prevent rape.

There are many different places you can go if you are raped. It can happen to anybody (males included). It is a difficult situation to deal with, but we can help reduce the number of rapes if we use are heads. It is not an overnight solution, but if women follow these previous steps the rapes in this country will decline over time. And besides, that 1995 total of rapes 354,670 is 354,670 too many.

Works Cited Avery, Byllye and Rodriguez-Trias, Helen and Steinem, Gloria. 1992. Our Bodies Our Selves. http://www.gopher.uchicago.edu 70/00/ustudent/sexab/AcquaintanceRape/whatis Hughes, Jean O’Gorman. 1987. “Friends Raping Friends—Could It Happen to You? www.cs.utk.edu/~bartley/aquaintRape.html#how http://www.ncf.carleton.ca/freenet/rootdir/menus/sigs/life/feminism/safety/rape. prev RAINN http://feminist.com/rainn.htm

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