Some parents fail to provide just the basic needs for child, such as food, clothing, or even supervision. Even some children are brought up with their parents fighting all the time, rather it being physical or just yelling. Parents from such marriage... ... middle of paper ... ...ild abuse which is injury to a child by a parent. The physical injury will most likely result in hitting, kicking shaking, throwing, or whipping. Another type of abuse is sexual abuse.
Parents usually have the best intentions – like protecting their children from life's hardships and preparing them for adulthood. However as with many other aspects of parenting, the results do not always match the intentions. Overprotective parents generally want to protect their children from harm, hurt, pain, failure, unhappiness, bad experiences, rejection, and disappointment (Lindsey 1). However, parents must realize that overprotective parenting has certain side effects. Parents believe that they are doing a favor for their children by keeping them safe without realizing that this parenting style can have severe effects on children such as robbing children of the essential life skills that they need in order to have a healthy personality and to face life problems.
The Failures of the Foster Care System To many outsiders, the foster care system may appear to be a safe haven for those children that are abused or abandoned by their birth family. This is correct, but the system with which it is based, has many flaws. A background check is mandatory for all foster parents, but a test to see if a child 's temperament matches that caregiver 's parenting style, is not. Now, this is seen as a minor issue, but there is not enough evidence to support this. Plus, there are many other, much worse reasons, why the system is not perfect.
Misbehavior and failure in children is often regarded to be the fault of the parents rather than the children, however, not so often the outside influences on the parents are taken into consideration. Although exterior influences can benefit parents in some ways, they usually harm parenting skills rather than benefit them. While some influences that effect parents daily, most influences are triggered by pressure of what is deemed acceptable in a certain society. Not only are parents pressured by the beliefs of their own parents or the beliefs of the media, they are pressured by simple and often uncontrollable impacts such as the cost of living and the amount children they raise. Though many adult children would like to believe that their parents raised them a certain way because that is what they felt was appropriate, many do not realize that outside influences affect parenting styles.
Social Workers have to help the child if they are being abused or neglected in the home. Or even if the home is just not fit to live in. They need help to become safe and the chance of a better future. If the time ever occurs, action may need to be taken. If after they leave the home, the social worker feels that it is just completely ... ... middle of paper ... ...o know all that there is to know about this company and how they operate.
In this type of parenting, spoiling the children’s behavior by giving bribes and gifts are their parenting tools instead of setting the boundaries and expectations. Parents are often afraid to set limits as they believe child has to be true to his or her own nature (Traunter, 2017). According to research (2009), children under the permissive parenting approach is more likely to display low achievement in many areas and develop other risky behaviors such as drug use and other forms of misconduct. Children under the permissive parenting grow up without the strong sense of self-discipline. Since the parents don’t set the boundaries for the children, they lack the skills in social setting.
Other forms of child neglect are allowing child to be present during violence between parents, ignoring insu... ... middle of paper ... ...e endured upon those who struggled with neglect are never ending. Every situation is different. That child may have been able to make it past hardships without any mental impairments but as an adult they may have a difficult time coping. They may not know what being in love is because they don’t know how to love or be loved. Therefore putting a barrier that will not allow adequeate communication with others.
Parenting is not an easy job, but that is not an excuse for having bad mannered and rude children. Most of the time the parents are trying as hard as they can to raise a well-mannered child, but other external factors are diminishing those parenting skills. Some of those diminishing factors are depression and disagreements between parents. Depression can be directly linked with bad parenting. When a parent or both of the parents are depressed, they don’t want to do anything, which includes raising a child.
Obviously you should not listen to your parents if they are telling you to do something that is dangerous or something that could harm you because they clearly don’t have your best interests in mind if they are asking you to do that. I know that this may seem like a no brainer to some people but not always. Some kids are trained to do everything that their parents tell them but when they aren’t really thinking of you it is more than ok but even good to disobey them. Your parents are supposed to help you through life and try to raise you as a good person but if they are intentionally telling you to get hurt they ar... ... middle of paper ... ...he situation as well as you and don’t understand the consequences. Obviously you should not listen to your parents if they are telling you to do something that is dangerous or something that could harm you because they clearly don’t have your best interests in mind if they are asking you to do that.
The idea of taking children to day-care is unacceptable by a good number of people. They probably think this way, because daycare involves putting someone else in the ‘parenting’ picture; as far as spending time with, and caring for the child is concerned. However, this is not exactly negative. This is because day-care provides care for little children while their parents attend to other matters, such as attending school or working to earn a living. It is important for those people who discourage day care to realize that not all parents can afford to stay at home with their children all day, as much as they would like to.