Good Pride Essay

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To what extent does pride become a harmful or beneficial trait? Pride is the feeling of pleasure gained from one’s own achievements. There are two types of pride; “good” and “bad”. Good pride is when one’s intention to help another is to prosper and positively assist them. The person who helps the other gains pride after he completes his “task”, showing how his fundamental goal is to benefit the other person. On the other hand, bad pride is when one’s intention is to benefit himself, ultimately resulting in the harm for others. Men who possess bad pride put their own satisfaction in front of someone else’s, and their main goal is to essentially obtain pride. To be able to achieve this goal, men go on to “help” others to gain a better reputation. …show more content…

Darcy, Mrs. Bennet, and Lydia Bennet. Darcy is widely perceived as the “proudest, most disagreeable man in the world” (13). In the beginning of the novel, Darcy exhibits bad pride by putting his reputation in front of Elizabeth’s feelings. For instance, Darcy says to Bingley at the Netherfield ball, “[Elizabeth is] not handsome enough to tempt me” (13). Darcy does not only unveil his arrogance, but he also offends Elizabeth by calling her too ugly for his satisfaction. Although Elizabeth “remained with no very cordial feelings towards [Darcy]” (14) after his rude remark, Darcy’s comment holds the potential to lower Elizabeth’s self-esteem and pride in her beauty. In this example, Darcy favors his pride, consequently revealing a harmful trait that can negatively affect Elizabeth, or in fact anybody, which ultimately makes Darcy seem narcissistic and vain. Although Darcy originally shows bad pride, his character reveals later that he, as a matter of fact, obtains mostly good pride. In a conversation between Elizabeth and Wickham, Elizabeth asks, ‘“can such abominable pride as [Darcy’s], have ever done him good?”’ (80). Wickham responds, ‘“Yes... brotherly pride, which with some brotherly affection, makes him a very kind …show more content…

This deed is to experience and get to know Darcy through time, and Wickham does just this. He finds Darcy to be “liberal and generous” (80), rather than viewing him as egotistical. Furthermore, since Darcy cares for his family rather than only for himself, he displays a sense of concern and responsibility for others, proving that Darcy does possess good pride. This quote demonstrates how Darcy cares about his family’s well-being by showing affection to them and consequently, Darcy gains pride after he expresses his love to them, verifying that Darcy obtains good pride. Another example of Darcy displaying his good pride is through his love for Elizabeth. Darcy expresses his love for Elizabeth by paying for Wickham’s debts. As a result, he helps the Bennet family from having to pay a fortune. Darcy conveys his strong admiration for Elizabeth not by direct love, rather he turns to her family as a way of transmitting his adoration for her. This act of helping her family shows how his love for Elizabeth is so powerful, it causes him to help her family for the sake of helping them and not for a good reputation. We know this is true

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