Why do we care what we look like? Some may argue that it’s because people will judge you more harshly, some may even go as far as to say “it’s the survival of the the fittest.” The most accurate answer is different from person to person because of this factor it is hard to determine the definite answer which in turn looks at a question “Does the portrayal of oneself’ really matter more to others or does this idea matter more to yourself?” It is this question that is the real basis of how we present ourselves, our actions and even our thoughts, the ties with this alone is enough to keep us on tangents for days. These ties and links broaden this question further. An idea that correlates all too well is the inescapable perennial society that we’re forever captive in, originating from the mentality with the connections to the main question. It’s this idea that helps develop more complex controversial ideas, that really look at prospects and variables in everyday life, that go by unnoticed.
In contemporary society, appearance is a major dominating theme in typical everyday lives of many. This is shown in the portrayal of our physical appearance and presentation phases we go through every morning.For instance the reflection in the mirror is an exterior and extension of you as an individual, this is evident when you stop speaking but continue thinking. Does it matter what you look like on the outside when we all look relatively the same on the inside ? Yes, it does matter, the portrayal of yourself on the outside is equally as important if not more important than qualities and emotions in todays’ modern day an age. “Masks have no face value,” this humorous saying is similar in contrast to people, meaning through latter-day means, p...
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...e relations to the main question ““Does the portrayal of oneself’ really matter more to others or does this idea matter more to yourself?” which helps to lay out the definite answer to the question to “YOU.”
As explained throughout my uniform of writing, the foundation to society can be linked to one question and many others, one probable and immediate question I looked at was “Does the portrayal of oneself’ really matter more to others or does this idea matter more to yourself? through this question, tangents are able to be explored, such as what I looked at throughout the uniform, “society,” and its’ effects on ourselves as well as the connection to predetermined ideas, on ourselves, and many other things, resulting in my influence of thought on you as a reader, to really decide the true definite answer, to the question by yourself, with a little encouragement.
When we feel the need to change outward appearance we need to be concerned and aware of how those changes effect the person we are within as we are about appearance. External beauty is not as attractive if the person inside is not the type of person we would want to be with. Appearance can be initially blinding and deceptive. When you being to look beyond the outer layers of appearance and into the character of the person you are relating to you can quickly find the beauty alone is not enough to sustain a meaningful relationship. Beauty can fade and appearance change as we grow older but who we are at the core should remain constant or improve with age and wisdom. Kit Reed’s story shows the high cost of how focusing only on your outer appearance to the detriment of the person you are can
Appearance matters. What people express towards others, ultimately, results in a variety of reactions. In the play The Tragedy of Hamlet, Prince of Denmark by William Shakespeare, every major character shows the audience their real personalities through Polonius’s words, “This above all: to thine own self be true” (1.3.79). If someone becomes true to himself, he will be true to others. However, these characters have facades where they put on a different personality to hide their true feelings, as well as to deceive others. In the end, these false personalities lead to their demise.
... if we give appearance and look the importance they do not deserve. In today’s world, children kill themselves, celebrities use drugs, people fake personality because they think that they don’t fit the standard and they don’t want to be judged and view based on the way they look and who they are. We are all different so to enjoy each other differences and learn from one another, we should take away those imaginary standards and live by each other free and confident.
“Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart” (Kahlil). People focus more on the outward appearance instead of the inward appearance. One’s inward appearance is comprised of their character, values, morals, and the true nature of their heart. On the other hand, the outward appearance is composed of one’s dress and grooming. The inward and outward appearance determines whether or not a person is ugly or beautiful. The choices that we make also define whether or not one is ugly or beautiful; choices made in the past can sometimes be repeated in the future.
Many people today feel insecure about their bodies. They feel that people will judge them more if they have a crooked nose or eyes that are too close to each other. Some get liposuction if they feel too fat or breast implants because they think it will make them more attractive to the opposite sex. These people who do not feel happy about the way their bodies portray themselves to others often feel that way because, according to psychologist Alan Feingold, “Physically attractive people often receive preferential treatment and are perceived by others as more sociable, dominant, mentally healthy, and intelligent than less attractive people.” (Feingold, 304-341) The individuals who think they are ugly can transform themselves from “ugly ducklings” to “swans” by using plastic surgery.
Believe it or not your physical appearance truly matters in the society we live in today.
Society tends to misjudge people base on their appearances instead of their personality. As it’s shown on Cyrano de Bergerac story everyone misjudges people. Cyrano was ashamed of the way he looked, especially with his enormous nose that made him stand out. People didn’t care if Cyrano got his feelings hurt they thought he was a cruel person. Its bad when people tends to misjudge people without even knowing them but they just judge them by their looks instead of their personality. People shouldn’t be ashamed of the way they look and it shouldn’t stop them from accomplishing their goals and express their feelings towards the people they like.
It looks like looks are here to stay” (Akst 331). Akst’s degenerate remarks about beauty revolves around self-centered and arrogant values. He mentioned so many scientific statements about how humans should focus on maintaining an attractive appearance for society, and not for themselves. If Mairs and Walker read Akst’s essay, they would both disagree with his opinion about beauty. Both women would convey a message of accepting and embracing one’s beauty, despite the society’s view. Akst limits differences in a degrading way by mentioning “overweight” individuals are worthless and they send a negative message to society. The reader and the women can disagree with Akst’s statement because size, appearance, height, ethnicity, gender, and other abnormalities does not send a negative message, it is the comments made by a bias hypocrite who sees beauty as the aspiration to an individual’s
Sure, some of us have this great confidence within ourselves about looking great, but that does not hold true for everyone. I understand the pain or disgust, or even disappointment one feels when they look in the mirror and say, “I wish I could change this or that about myself”. Although this piece is written about the author’s life, it holds meaning and connects with for many people; one only has to dig deep enough to find one. For me, it was to realize what is important in life can change, adapt and that we must explore our inner selves and find our own path in life.
Being beautiful, being perfect, is what most of society cares about in this day and age. For example, people value getting rid of any to all imperfections, like having a bit of baby fat, or getting rid of scars. People are put down by the comments of strangers, and more so the comments made from people of their inner circle. People feel ugly and hate themselves for things that they have no control over. Some do radical things to get rid of these imperfections by getting surgery or taking pills. Even though not all people judge minor blemishes the view of one’s self is the most important view a person could have, and if that identity is under attack it could ruin a person 's self confidence. The story “The Birthmark” by Nathaniel Hawthorne also has aspects of self-confidence and identity that are relevant to the current times.
Hook: Two men walk into a store. One is dressed in a three-quarter black business suit; his hair is gelled back and he stands in a confident pose as he stares ahead. While the other man looks downward, his hands in his baggy gray sweatshirt and he smells of alcohol. How people portray themselves can cause stereotypes and judgments to be formed within a blink of an eye. A person may read in the newspaper the next day on how a store was robbed and instantly think it was the suspicious looking man, the one with the baggy clothes. Why is this? Humans and people, in general, have always based their perceptions on people for what they look like. This all has to do with the media and social influences on how an image is made to be relevant.
In this essay, I will compare people that are obsessed with physical appearance and appearances. It is not strange for individuals to worry about physical appearance. In fact, we could argue that we are living in a culture that weighs the most up-to-date trends or newest fashions more heavily than more pressing issues that affects society. As a result, many people become obsessed with their physical appearance in order to keep up with trends and fashions.
The authors Benner and Pennington, speak of the damaging nature of the false self in contrast with the freedom of the true self. The false self is described as the reliance upon the attachments we form, to the things we attribute to making us special or proud of who we are. The reliance on these attributes are likened to the fig leaves that Adam and Eve used for the purpose of hiding behind, out of fear of being ‘seen’. The idea is expressed that we hide, in fear of people seeing the things we have at some point cast out of our lives in shame.
Image can also be presented in ways other than how a person looks. For example, many people who lose their jobs still strive to preserve their dignity by picking themselves up through tough times, wanting to portray a image of perseverance and determination. This shows that one’s image can be portrayed through one’s actions and character, not appearances alone. Thus, it can be argued that appearances may not be everything.
There are over seven billion people on earth and every single one looks different. No matter how much people say that being different is unique, they are wrong. Society has set a beauty standard, with the help of the media and celebrities, that makes people question their looks. This standard is just a definition of what society considers being “beautiful.” This idea is one that mostly everyone knows about and can relate to. No one on this planet is exactly the same, but people still feel the need to meet this standard. Everyone has two sides to them; there is the one that says “you are perfect just the way you are”, while the other side puts you down and you tell yourself “I have to change, I have to fit in.” There is always going to be that side that cares and the one that doesn’t.