Pornography's Effects on Relationships

It might lead to a false definition of... ... middle of paper ... ...try will continue to produce unrealistic images of men and women through editing. Women will continue to imagine men as aggressive and having immense amounts of stamina. Men can believe that there is no such thing as an STD or pregnancy and that women have an ideal figure — a big butt, thin stomach and big or decent sized breasts. Viewers who are still virgins will believe that having sex is the greatest thing because it always goes well in porn. Women’s self-esteem will continue to shatter because they will think that they cannot satisfy a man’s sexual cravings — often what keeps relationships in 2014 together.

It will either continue to increase or someone will realize that this material isn’t okay. Men should think about this before watching it. They should ask themselves if it is worth putting their marriages at stake, or if it’s okay that their children are as easily accessed to these videos as they are, or that their daughters may one day be victimized because of all this. What happened to passionate sex with the one you love… and respect? Pornography is nothing but a vicious circle.

The stigma that prostitutes are not clean and do not use contraception make people believe sexually transmitted diseases are high amongst people involved in this service industry. Some think that a person’s body, especially a woman’s is of high value and prostitution strips it of its glory. The argument here is that a person who partakes in prostitution is immoral and does not value their body. The argument against prostitution is clear. People have been told their whole lives to treasure their body, sex is for married couples, and those who are religious think they will go to hell if they have sexual intercourse out of wedlock.

Most men think that their girlfriends or wives are the main problem makers, and strongly oppose the fact that they are the problem too. Similarly, women find their own reasons to blame their men for the failures of their relationships. However, everything comes to a point where each person should take a look at their own flaws and also consider the problems in their own sex, that unfortunately cause their marriage to dissolve in the big pot of misunderstanding and confusion. From women's point of view we can see that men are not the perfect human beings, which they think they are. Women come up with countless causes that build up tension between couples.

Pornography is exposing wrong things about sexual orientations and it can possibly ruin their lives. Porn has become such a huge problem for people in relationships. Relationships are established on faith and nourishment, not pornography. Women in relationships get so defeated because they believe they will never meet the expectations of their partner’s fantasies. Men start to compare their loved one to what they see and both the man and the woman become unsatisfied.

Ladies, it is about time to forget about where to bargain for the best toilet-roll deal in town and instead, consider speaking up for yourself, as outrageously enough, the OWC is now convicting you guilty for your husband’s infidelity. Most women – feminists in particular – were incensed by the ideology of the OWC, that the recipe to a blissful marriage is a cheery man at home, which can be realized if women served their spouses like “first –class prostitutes”. Nevertheless, from what perspective is the OWC viewing this issue and why has it stir such uproar among those who are against it? As its title explicitly implies, the Obedient Wives Club (OWC) advocates for a happier family and ultimately, a better society which is believed to be attainable providing that women were to implement their wifely duties of not merely taking good care of the family, but more importantly, to make their husbands happy in the bedroom. In their argument, according to Azizan (2011), despite the many efforts committed by the authorities, insidious societal ills like rape, incest, domestic violence, prostitution and sex-trafficking are still prevalent.

If man and the woman both had the same communication ways they would be more successful in marriage. Many of the communication issues are brought up in the article “Sex, Lies, and Conversation by Deborah Tannen.” Tannen states that men and women argue with one another over communication which leads to marital problems and divorce. Men and women have different viewpoints on communication. Women see bad communication as the one of the major reasons for divorce. Also the way men and women communicate are very different.

“The violence, the abuse, is partly the chilling but logical result of the objectification” (Kilbourne 498). When women are so used to seeing themselves as objectified they soon start to believe it. Women become more vulnerable because it shows men that anything is possible with just a spritz of perfume or a certain brand of an alcoholic drink. Industries do not think twice before making an advertisement because they are not the victims. Violence is the main problem that arises due to advertisements.

There are no better words then the ones Laurie used in her article about this. Growing up, both from my parents and sex education classes, I thought sex was wrong, bad, and not meant for pleasure. Sexual Education classes gave me false ideas that sex would lead to nothing but rape, sexual transmitted diseases, pregnancy, or an unfulfilled future. These things were all negative and was meant to scare the directed audience of middle and high school aged girls and boys. I think it is crucial for two people who have sex, either casually or because they are in a relationship/married, need to communicate their feelings and what helps them to achieve orgasm.

A woman is easily called a slut if she has sex with her boyfriend or with different men over time, but a man is often praised for the same behavior. The woman is shamed while the man is celebrated for his accomplishments. The degree of misogyny when it comes to divorce and separations has thankfully changed over the last few generations. With divorces more common, women are now able to choose to leave a marriage when unhappy in the same way men can make that choice. The power no longer remains solely in the hand of the man, but lies within either