Persuasion: to convince my father to stop smoking
I battled with my father to stop smoking ever since I knew smoking was harmful. Sometimes, I just wanted to set fire to all his cigarettes, especially when he coughed in pain. Moreover, after a sweet morning hug, I had to endure the nauseating smell of cigarette smoke lingering on my clothes the whole day.
Every possible way to discourage my father from smoking had been carried out: I hid every cigarette found in home, complained about the remaining odor, and even pretended to be affected by secondhand smoke, coughing sharply. However, nothing turned out to be helpful. As a businessman, my father was specialized in distinguishing whether we were acting faking or not. To make matters worse, he was encouraged to smoke in his office!
My father always covered himself up by quoting street wisdom: “If a man was accustomed to smoking for a long time, it would be more than devastating for him to give it up, because his system would be disrupted.” It was a good excuse because no member in our democratic family would debate him.
And then an unexpected thing happened. One of my father’s colleagues, who was young and promising, passed away of lung cancer. Apparently, the tragedy lied in excessive smoking. I heard it from my parent accidently, when my father said that the young man died of a blood clot, a disease due to smoking.
At that time, I realized that I had to do something serious before it is too late. It was actually an optimum chance to make a change. However, I was sure that I could not make it by myself. Then I organized a meeting without the presence of my father, trying to make a difference by collected wisdom. During this meeting, all of our family agreed on the fact that my f...
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...g the period I leave, my mother will be the one that supervise my father. My mother was a traditional housewife who treasures the devotion her husband gives for the whole family, never putting up with opposite ideas toward my father. Obviously she deserves trusting now because what we were dealing with now was the health of the person we love most.
The happy thing was that we could clearly observe his change, mentally and physically. Instead of surfing online with non-stop cigarettes, my father tends to go out with my mother for shopping stuff in his leisure time.
Persuading my father gives up bad hobby really pumped the atmosphere of our family. My father admitted that as soon as he decided to give up, cigarette is no more attractive like before. He doesn’t cough and feel sick every morning anymore. This use of rhetoric benefit both speaker and audience.
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...her” (Unknown). Smoking is harmful and shouldn’t even have begun with in the first place. To put a single thought about all the bad things that smoking can lead to isn’t hard. Smoking should never even cross the brain. It is crazy how many people just do it so they can “fit in.” That shouldn’t be an excuse to get lung disease, or to ruin cells in the brain. Do not put the harm of others into your hands. Just ask yourself if you can handle the guilt of knowing that someone who doesn’t smoke has “smoker’s lungs” because they have been around someone who smokes. There are so many people today that die, because they have smoked all their life, or even died from secondhand smoke because their parents or spouse have smoked in front of them. So think twice before lighting a cigarette and taking the first puff, think about what all can happen to the body, once addicted.
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I have watched a man try to convince me he's not a smoker, as he holds a cigarette in his
Second Hand Smoke In the 1950's and 60's scientists gave the people a lot of evidence on the deadly effects of smoking where the tobacco companies on the other hand tried to put the doubt in people’s minds through the campaigns to show that it is not all true. By the time people actually decided to take care of their health and finally saw how life-threatening smoking could be by real life examples, the tobacco companies already got rich from its sales. Nowadays, nobody doubts that “firsthand” smoke is deadly to your health and it causes lung cancer and heart disease in adults and asthma and bronchitis in children. Now the industry is onto the secondhand smoke. Scientists and researchers are representing a lot of evidence and research that has been done throughout the years showing that the secondhand smoke can also cause a lung cancer in nonsmokers. The study has been done of people who have been long exposed to secondhand smoke and it shows that 26 out of 33 published studies indicate a link between secondhand smoke and lung cancer. The study estimates that the people that were breathing secondhand smoke were 8 to 150 percent more likely to get lung cancer. The tobacco companies are trying to argue the facts and are still in serious debate about the health hazards of breathing a secondhand smoke. A lot of anti-smoking organizations are trying to turn smoking in public into a private activity that does not have to involve nonsmokers breathing secondhand smoke. What is even more important is that many of these organizations convinced a lot of smokers to cut back or quit completely. The problem of secondhand smoke is increasing because it is so common in our society. It makes secondhand smoke the third-ranking cause of lung cancer among nonsmokers. Mothers who live with a smoking spouse have to realize the ill effects of secondhand smoke on children even before they are born. The smoking components reach the developing fetus through the mother. Infants that are born in a smoking environment weigh less and have a weaker chance of becoming a fully developed child. Secondhand smoke leads to blood clots and damages arterial linings which are the two most leading factors in the development of heart disease. The tobacco companies got scared of the effect that the secondhand smoke research can do to the cigarette makers.
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