Perspective of a Wise Man about Marriage

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What is love? It does not require a philosophical pundit to see that the culture in the United States today clearly cannot answer this question. When one looks at the “love” acts that Americans participate in these days—premarital sex, gay relationships, pornography viewing, masturbation, adultery, rape, incest, molestation—it becomes clear that a large percentage of the American society has lost all sense of guidelines for loving relationships. Of course, a man of intelligence perceives the culture’s confusion on the matter of love, and, if he is prudent, attempts to set himself aloof from it. At first, he may wonder where, in this world of varying views, can an astute man of wisdom turn to find credible guidelines for loving relationships and marriage. Amidst the relational anarchy around him, the man sees a prominent source of sound marital guidance: the Catholic Church. Though not all may consider themselves to be “religious,” the wise man recognizes that there is value to observing the views of a religious group, if only to better understand his own. The wise man dives in with an open mind, hoping to acquire some knowledge from Catholic teaching that will assist him in his quest for clarity. He discovers that the Catholic marriage tradition includes a free aspect, a total aspect, a faithful aspect, and a fruitful aspect, and that these aspects reveal the deep theological symbols behind this union; the wise man takes notes.

The first thing he discovers about marriage is that Catholic Marriage is rooted in freedom. The Encyclopædia Britannica on Catholic Marriage says that is “administered by the spouses through the exchange of consent” (Safra). This idea is backed up by the Catechism of the Catholic Church (Ratzinger, CCC #...

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...h other, faithful to each other, and fruitful with each other?” Amidst the confusion in the world regarding marriage, the wise man has finally found a solid foundation on which to build his actions. His contentment in his future marriage, if he adheres to his revelations, is assured. He applies his knowledge diligently, and is not terribly shy about discipling others in the matter.

Works Cited Page

Evert, Jason. If You Really Loved Me. El Cajon, California: Catholic Answers Inc, 2003. Print.

Hartdegen, Stephen. Saint Joseph Edition of The New American Bible. New York: Catholic Book Publishing Corp, 1992. Print.

Ratzinger, Joseph. Catechism of the Catholic Church. The Vatican: Libreria Editrice Vaticana, 1994. Print.

Safra, Jacob. “Roman Catholicism.” Encyclopædia Britannica. 15th Edition. Print.

Strand, Luke. Email Interview. 16 February 2014.

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