Personality and Sexual Orientation

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Hypothesis: Sexual orientation has an effect on one’s personality, even at birth. My Initial Hypothesis I believe that sexual orientation is not something that is learned. I believe that from the time we are born, we have imbedded in our minds our sexual preferences. I do not believe that a gay man is gay because of the choices that he has made in his life. I believe that he was born gay, but the choices and his environment have only reinforced it. Attachment is something that affects children when they are first born. When they are born they are attracted, so to speak, to their parents. They see them every day, and their parents give them what they want and when they want it (Bernstein, 2011, p.22). Most people are familiar with the Oedipus complex. Friedman and Downy (1995) believe that when young boys play with their fathers, it is usually in a rough manner. These young boys fulfill the need to be competitive with their fathers, resulting in an attraction to the father, and people like him through this Oedipus complex. The Empirical Research Sexual orientation is a key aspect in any person’s life. The way of life for a gay, lesbian, and all sexual minorities are drastically different than those who are heterosexual. The critical time period for sexual development is in the early stages of childhood. Although childhood is a critical period, many studies have been conducted ranging from those in their twenties and thirties (Carver, Perry, & Egan, 2004). Storms (1981) believes that the content of one’s sexual fantasies that arouses the stimuli of their erotic orientation. Storms (1981) also stated that sexual orientation is a combination of social development and sexual development that takes place during an individual’... ... middle of paper ... ...9. Bernstein, D.A. (2010). Essentials of Psychology. (5th Ed.) Belmont, CA: Wadsworth, Cengage Learning, 363-365 Carver, P. R., Perry, D. G., Egan, S. K. (2004). Children who question their heterosexuality. Developmental Psychology, 40, 43-53. Friedman, R. C., Downy, J.I. (1995) Biology and the Oedipus complex. Psychoanalytic Quarterly, 64, 234-264 Golombok, S., Tasker, F. (1996). Do parents influence the sexual orientation of their children? findings from a longitudinal study of lesbian families. Developmental Psychology, 32, 3-11. Jamil, O. B., Harper, G. W., Fernandez, M. I. (2009). Sexual and ethnic identity development among gay-bisexual-questioning (GBQ) male ethnic minority adolescents. Cultural Diversity and Ethnic Minority Psychology, 15, 203-214. Storms, M. D. (1981). A theory of erotic orientation development. Psychological Review, 88 340-353.

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