"Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself." --Bruce Lee
"People! Come on! All of us are cutting history. Who wants to go take that stupid exam?
Some Of The Effects That Peer-Pressure Have On Teens
Teens are effected in so many ways by peer pressure is social pressure by member of ones peer group to take a certain action, adopt certain values, or other wise conform in order to be accepted. Peer pressure effect different teens in different ways. Teen are often being pressured into using drugs, having sex, drinking and bullying, the list goes on. When the peer pressure becomes overwhelming teens suffer great effects such social anxiety, depression some even result to suicide.
All of us have peer groups or friends that we always get along and hang out with. However, at some point of our lives, we tried and did crazy stuffs that we regret because you, yourself, know at that point it is wrong but still did it because of peer pressure. Then what is peer pressure? Peer pressure is when a person cannot decide for oneself and just depend of what their friends’ decision is. It is being very dependent on your friends that a simple decision can be hard to decide if alone. For example is when attending a class, but your friends told you that they will not attend, surely the student being “pressured” will also not attend the class.
Peer pressure is when a person is pressured by a this person's peer group to do a certain action, adopt values, or conform to be accepted by the peer group. What society and the law says to do is not always equal to what is spoken by one’s peer group, because consequences come from actions which can destroy, harm or affect others. The effects of peer pressure can be positive or negative, as shown in George Orwell’s short autobiography “Shooting an Elephant”, British imperialism, or in modern day actions and discipline. Peer pressure is a leading factor to almost everything a person does which often results in positive and sometimes negative consequences.
Peer pressure is doing something that is not quite normal, but your friends pressure you into the situation because they do it. This definition of peer pressure is something that is always happening, especially with the world changing each day. Things like tobacco, alcohol, and drugs, are all possibilities that peer pressure is related to. However, in the texts “Shooting and Elephant” by George Orwell and “No Witchcraft for Sale” by Doris Lessing demonstrate peer pressure among many thing; however, there are many solutions resulting in good things compared to the bad things that have happened. Solutions to peer pressure in these texts could be many things, but the three that would work best would be: ignore the person, walk away, and lastly, know that you should not do anything you do not feel comfortable with.
“Conformity is the act of matching attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors to what individuals perceive as normal of their society or social group. This influence occurs in small groups and society as a whole, and may result from subtle unconscious influences, or direct and overt social pressure. Conformity can occur in the presence of others or when an individual is alone” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conformity)
Peer Pressure: A Change in Perspective
Alert! Alert! We 've all seen it on TV shows and in the movies: a good kid with a good home and a good family life, but questionable friends. Soon enough, the kid is going out every night smoking, doing drugs, and partying.
This is where it begins. Peer pressure is a result of what people will think. "What will people think if I don't drink with them?" "What will people think if I don't ditch class with them?" These are examples that can block the road to freedom.
Many people experience all different forms of peer pressure throughout their life. There are different types of peer pressure such as to do drugs, or drink or even to just do something completely dumb or against what that specific person believes in. At a teenager age there are many more issues with peer pressure because in these years not only are we vulnerable and curious but the people known as our ‘friends’ have a lot of influence over us. Most of the time we do whatever it is they want us to do to either entertain them or make them happy. Yet that doesn’t mean after the teenage years that peer pressure is completely gone from an adults life. Many adults are continually peer pressured even into old age although it may be a bit more difficult to recognize the peer pressure because it isn’t always defined as peer pressure. In Shooting an Elephant by George Orwell the main character is really tested in a completely different setting than what he is used to. Also in No Witchcraft for Sale by Doris Lessing the main characters abstinence is tested. Although the main characters are in difficult situations in both these stories there are solutions for the main character in Shooting an Elephant by George Orwell and No Witchcraft for Sale by Doris Lessing.
Peer pressure and acts of mass blind obedience are all too common occurrences in our everyday society. A person, who under any other circumstances would never act in such a way, will commit unthinkable acts when backed by a single person or even worse, a large mass of individuals. It’s almost always destructive, and the person or persons involved usually always end up feeling regretful and bewildered by their actions. When thinking about group peer pressure, there are several other words that come to mind such as; conformity, compliance, brainwashing and social influence. Group peer pressure can make a person with the purest morals and the highest values act in ways that are more than contradictory. Group peer pressure can turn a saint into a sinner, a leader to a follower, and an individual to a tiny speck in a large and corrupt mass.