My Unforgettable Experience

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It is fantastic to establish independence in a foreign country. However, most of my relatives believed that living in a foreign country would definitely be difficult. Fortunately, I did not agree with them. I thought I had to have some guts and confront my life matters. Subsequently, I became a twenty-two-year-old international student who has been living in the United States with full independence for five years. This will always be my unforgettable experience since I am having the opportunity to gain the best education from a sophisticated country, which is the USA. Indeed, we all have different aims in our lives that need to be achieved. I know this is true because being a married international student means that I need to accomplish my …show more content…

My wife and I live alone in the US. I am the only person for her, as she is the only person for me. Both of us rely on each other in joy as well as in sorrow. America has taught me how to manage my time to spend it more properly. In my country, it is not easy for me to find enough time for my wife because I have other priorities. For example, in the US, I am a full-time student which means as soon as I arrive home, my time belongs to my wife. On the other hand, in my country, I have my parents who I need to take care of since I am the oldest brother. I have my grandmother who I need to see every two days. Sometimes I go through some stressful days in school that take away my time for my wife, but in fact, nowadays, I schedule my time to spend it usefully with her even though it could be less quantity of time. For instance, when I started my final exams last semester, I had to go study with my classmates at a library. Every time I came home late, my wife would be sleeping. In the beginning of this semester, I decided to study at home and make my wife active with my studies, instead. Since we are currently living in the US where women have more freedom to be exposed, I take her with me to some of my friend’s meetings, so we can both do more activities

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