My Personal Journey In Life: My Journey Through Life

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It was my first day of highschool, and I was completely terrified. Unlike most of the students at CJ, my friends from grade school did not come with me to high school. I wasn’t scared of the classes or all the homework; I was scared to make new friends and get out of my comfort zone. Over my high school career I changed from someone like Mariam and Laila from A Thousand Splendid Suns, by Hosseini, who watched the world behind their masks, to someone like Siddhartha, from Siddhartha, who was willing to experience the world and Odysseus, from The Odyssey by Homer, who could easily talk to strangers. Over my journey through life, specifically my high school career, I have had a huge change not only physically, but mentally. I have gone from an extremely introverted person to a fusion of …show more content…

She is very extroverted and could almost instantly make friends. I (as a follower) started to model after what she did, and whether I liked it or not, talk to more people. This friendship opened me up to a whole new group of friends, to people I had never really talked to before. I also brought out qualities in her. As she brought out a more social part in me, I brought out a part in her that was more thoughtful and peaceful, almost like Mariam and Laila. In One Thousand Splendid Suns Laila brings Mariam out of her shell after Laila marries Rasheed. Before Laila, Mariam listened to all the men in her life who told her what to do. As her and Laila became friends, Mariam became more social and spoken. The act that proved who Mariam had become was her killing of Rasheed, which showed all that she had become, a strong woman. “And yet she was leaving the world as a woman who had loved and been loved back.”(Hosseini 329) I didn’t prove myself as changed by killing someone, but my change can be seen in my group of friends, happiness, and even in my school

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