My Conflict Analysis

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Everyone has had a conflict with loved one’s, countless conflicts can be resolved while other’s turn into full on fights. My conflict had commenced during freshman year of high school with only my statement of desiring to visit Europe when I graduated; more specifically London and Paris. After all, my dad had traveled around the world with the military, my grandma voyages for fun, and even my mom had departed the U.S., so it was in my blood for the excitement of travel. However, Rob, my stepdad, hadn’t been on board with my proposal to go overseas, saying there was no way I’d be able to come up with the money and even if I did assemble the money I should put it towards college. Nonetheless, I saved every last dime I possessed and received …show more content…

However, I made it to London and Paris, and I had the time of my life experiencing different cultures, especially the food. Even when I had returned home Rob was still giving me a difficult time about the money situation, but I realized he’d be this way so I had gotten him some coffee and chocolate from Europe. Afterwards, he’d zipped his mouth about the issue for about a month, but once in a while he’ll drop hints describing this problem when formulating payment plans for the university. Although, I believe he was sort of surprised and/or proud of me to stand up to him and decide for myself what I desire to do with my life, he just won’t admit it. Contemplating to when this issue started, I should have realized sooner that Rob would be the one to have an issue with this, as he’s the one to keep a tight leash on the money situation and not wanting any of the kids to leave by themselves. In fact, he practically had a meltdown when I joined a class trip to Washington D.C. in eighth grade, even though there were seven chaperones watching thirty students. Therefore, for him to hear that I wanted to go over to Europe for two weeks was over the edge, and was mad at my mom and dad for considering the option of allowing myself to leave. If I had known how against the idea he’d become, I would have had a meeting with my parents to tell them my whole arrangement of my trip to be successful that way everyone would understand that I had my criteria formulated. Then, before anyone would question it, tell them who I asked to join me, where I’d stay, what I’ll be doing, etc. Talking more about the situation can help ease the tension about the money situation, thus explaining that I’d work as many hours available to have extra money to put towards my future education. Hopefully, after the proposal they’d all be more informed of my journey,

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