She thinks that everything is fine and dandy to this very day; however, my bruised inner ego is still suffering and she thinks that I have forgotten. I will never forget these horrendous acts upon which I suffered because of her inadequacies. Occasionally I speak to my mother, only because I decided to be the better person. Some days I wish that I hadn’t but I know that in the end, she will know that I made it. I got away and I am free.
Being broken up with over a text message is not only disrespectful and wrong, but the lack of face-to-face communication creates a great ordeal of confusion and misinterpretations. Right when I read that text message on my break, I called him and asked him if he was being serious, in which his response began to make me cry hysterical, feeling hurt and empty inside. The rest of that day I acted like a totally dif... ... middle of paper ... ...ow can you better control how your mood relates to your actions: I can better control my moods by actually letting people help me with my problems instead of trying to cope with them by myself. I usually bottle everything up when I am in a bad mood, but lately I have been trying to talk to my friends and family about what is bothering me. The outcome seems to be working very well because their advice that they provide for me is always powerful and heartfelt.
My mother and I now are so different from before. I think we both realize that despite what either of us believe is right to do in our lives we respect one another’s wishes and beliefs. She and I will never be the same since that day I was not at home anymore but I do believe we are in a much better place. Now that I am grown definitely, I see the reasons behind the choices she made for me growing up. I have learned that ruling your life by fear can cause drastic life changing events, but if you can acknowledge your wrong doings, you can have a happy life.
People who leave “bad” marriages in search of better ones are just leavening a bad situation that is inevitable no matter what you do and they frequently disappointed to find out that their new relationship includes them too. Although we marry for the good times, the bad times are part of the package, we sign up for them when we stood in front of the alter, and is up to the individual to make or break the marriage work. Given the opportunity and the application of appropriate relationship skills, the bad times ultimately pass.
Through it all, she refused to give up the name of the man equally responsible for the crime. Hester was initially rejected by the people of Boston. The townspeople were embarrassed to have her among them, and to have had such a scandal occur in their church. Children, not fully understanding her crime, observed her fearfully and only from a distance. Hawthorne states that “The poor…, whom [Hester] sought out to be the objects of her bounty, often reviled the hand that was stretched forth to succor them.” Still, Hester found her niche in making clothing.
Mr. Birling, though, like his wife, feels no remorse and states I was quite justified. Sheila realises that she too, is caught up in Eva's history when the Inspector mentions what happened at Milwards. Eva was fortunate to be taken on there, but Sheila's jealous spite cost her the last regular job she had. Sheila tries to explain that it didn't seem to be anything that terrible at the time, but is aware of the enormity of her guilt. She is so conscience-struck that she is even prepared to shoulder the entire blame - So I'm really responsible.
It shows a diff... ... middle of paper ... ...to face reality. We gain true happiness in suffering because the greatest happiness is known that when we really suffered. And I'm pretty sure all the characters like Mandela, Ghandi could be happy to know that their fight eventually pay today. Even as a human, suffering has become a part of our existence. Any good marriage is based on periods of discord, relations between parents and children are often in tension.
Even though I will never be able to gaze into my mother’s brown eyes, listen to her laugh again, or feel her loving touch only a mother could have, I have transformed for the better. So in conclusion, death of a loved one can be a positive or negative, it all depends, and it is all determined by how someone looks at the situation. Someone can either look at the negatives, and have those negatives burden them. On the other hand, someone can find the positives even though they might be hard to discover in that tragic situation and make the instance a constructive one. That’s what I did, I found the positives in a terrible situation and tried to make the worst thing to happen in my life and convert it into a positive.
As humans, one tends to easily over react when situations happen. Talking with someone, who gives good advice, can really help one look at the situation and come to reason with it. Many friendships are lost due to petty things and no one having the willingness to forgive each other because of pride. People need to learn to put their pride aside and do what is right and forgive each other. As a result of permanently forgetting ones wrong doing; forgiveness has to be carried out by both decisional and emotional forgiveness.
The test came back that I was a strong Relator. I find that kind of shocking because the thing I am finding as my weakness is relating to my wife. This is why I am personally going to marriage counseling to seek help relating to her. However, I do find it easier to relate to people at work or in a business environment. Even though I see Relator as a weakness and a strength, my marriage counselor has told me that it is not that relating is not my strength, but I have to get more in depth with my emotions to relate to my wife.