“The family looked Indian but dressed as foreigners did, the children in stiff, brightly colored clothing and caps with translucent visors.” (Lahiri 147) In the beginning of the story we can see in this quote that Lahiri shows a theme, the difficulty of communication, where it shows a contrast between Indians and Indian Americans. Mr. Kapasi, after checking out Mrs. Das hopes that they will find something in common and will pursue his romance; yet, later on he does find that American gap that leads to disappointment.
The explicit illustration of how close Bharati and her sister were aids the argument because, together with its contrast revealed throughout the story, place emphasis on their similarities showing that people with the same past can have different futures, and those futures were both helpful to America and arduous to the sisters. Finally, the exemplification of how Bharati and her sister deviated from their own goals supports her argument because it clearly displays how America influenced both of them, and this in turn, leads to the idea that because America changed two, almost identical persons, into two complete opposites, both Bharati’s and her sister Mira’s lifestyles are valid, and congressmen should not seek to destroy what America’s culture has
The main character is Mrs. Das whom is flirtatious, careless, and needy. She and her husband take their family to see the country India for the first time. The tour guide Mr.Kapsi whom is curious, understanding, and quite aware. He sees something unusual at the beginning of the trip, but does not say anything. As the children continue their site seeing, the husband takes picture with his camera as if he lost in his own world. Meanwhile the wife gets to know the driver instead of site seeing. Mr.Kapsi is aware that the family is not like most Indians which lead him to be attracted to Mrs.Das. It states, “The family looked Indian but dressed as foreigners did, the children in stiff, brightly colored clothing and caps with translucent visors (29). This quote shows the difference in cultural clash as well the difficulty of communication. Mr.Kapsi tells Mrs. Das that he is an interpreter for a doctor which makes her believe she can discuss her personal business without him telling anyone. It states, “He decided to begin with the most obvious question, to get to the heart of the matter, and so he asked, “Is it really pain you feel, Mrs. Das, or is it guilt?”(39) Made the wife realized what she was truly feeling about her mistakes. After the conversation Mr.Kapsi did not look at the Mrs.Das the same way. The unusual
In America’s multi-cultural society, they acquire cultural sophistry but try to remain ‘pure’ at physical, mental, social and spiritual levels in their normative ethics. In the hybridity of cross-cultural consciousness, other cultures influence them just in a motivation but in ethical judgment they cannot be irrational or disloyal to their own culture for self-perfection. The cognizance of their ration faculty helps them to realize their existential condition in bicultural universe. It helps to measure the merits of the wavelength of ancestral culture. Native culture creates a condition for satisfactory life for these self-exiled lots. In emotion and intuition culture becomes a metaphor in their psychological mechanism which adds manifold advantages by draping a cover of satisfaction over frustration. The locale of the novel is America and India both there are cross-continental references and the time limit is punctuated between 1968 and 2000, more than thirty years, in a family history. During this time, the Gangulis have many changes in their life and status in American. They have frustrations and consolation in the individual dilemma but their cultural primitivism stands as a purifier in America’s cultural materialism. One cannot keep himself isolated from hybridity in the superstructure of America’s multi-cultureless for such a long time. In their quest for economic prosperity they have become rootless geo-politically both they do not like that rootlessness affects their inherited cultural. They are associated with America’s cultural available but this cannot provide the required satisfaction which they enjoy in their indigenous one. Physical displacement cannot create an emotional vacuum. In obligation and nostalgia...
Culture affects an individual's perception of the world around them only about half of the time. This is displayed by Bharati Mukherjee’s personal essay, Two Ways to Belong in America, where she talks about the different experiences and choices between her sister and her. In Mukherjee’s essay she explains how similarly she and her sister had grown up at the very start, “We dressed alike, in saris; we expressed identical views on politics, social issues, love and marriage …” (Mukherjee 89). This is done so the reader can see how much two similar people can diverge and begin to differentiate due to differences in culture and in the events that go on around them that affect their culture. Mira was taking a very culture central route to life, while Bharati was open to change in her culture and was a little less prolific in her need to stay more “Indian” than Mira was. One of their differences is shown when Mukherjee states, “She is happier to live in America as an expatriate Indian than as an immigrant American. I need to feel like a part of the
The narrator’s family considers socializing as a principal habit in Indian society. They have only one neighbor behind the fence, they are surrounded by a government office and a high
Her story gave me a greater insight into the process by which many Indian women migrated to the United States. When reading The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri, I did not think about Ashima’s story as being representative of the larger female Indian American immigrant experience, but in talking to Alka, I learned that their shared experience was common. Alka explained that many of the couples that she and her husband are friends with, had similar journeys to the United States. Through Alka’s narrative of her arrival, I also gained insight into arranged marriages which are heavily stigmatized in the Western world. She explained that her marriage was arranged by her and her husband’s parents who acquaintances and that largely left out of the decision making process. I was surprised that her family justified her engagement based on the fact that her field of studies would be most easily adapted in the United States, as well as financially stable. However, what surprised me most about her migration to the United States was, for the most part, out of her control. She chose to marry her husband because the match made both families so happy, and with that one decision she was whisked away to a foreign
Being of Indian descent himself, King successfully details the frequent uncomfortable interactions of Indians in North America through firsthand experiences, emotional confrontations, and reasoning. Reading through his chapter “Too Heavy,” it is difficult for one to not agree with his stance. After all, King writes from a perspective that is not often heard in mainstream media.
Indian’s stories were born from the experiences and the beliefs. They have kneaded their experiences with their beliefs, and they have struck an
“We are a nation of immigrants. We are the children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren of the ones who wanted a better life” said former Governor of Massachusetts, Mitt Romney, at the 2012 Republican National Convention. Since its establishment, the United States has grown through immigration, lending to a multicultural society. However, immigration and its government policies have become of great public interest due to illegal immigration at the Mexican border and violent events in the Middle East. For this reason it seems sensible to investigate the lives of immigrants so that U.S. citizens may take a stance on this disputed topic. Regardless of their origins, whether they are from Latin America, Asia, or anywhere else, immigrants seem to encounter similar endeavors. In Jhumpa Lahiri’s collection of short stories, Interpreter of Maladies, the author depicts the immigration of Indian citizens to the United States. Noting various matters ranging from motives to the cultural identity crisis, Lahiri exposes the struggles and ramifications of American immigration. The collection elucidates the lives of first and second generation