Manliness In Chinua Achebe's Things Fall Apart

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Most dictionaries will define manliness as “having qualities traditionally ascribed to men, like strength or bravery”. This word, manliness, is almost always associated with men. Okonkwo in the novel “Things Fall Apart” is the “definition” of manliness and much to his disapproval his son is not. “Nwoye knew it was right to be masculine and to be violent, but still somehow he still preferred the stories that his mother used to tell, and which she no doubt told to her younger children.” (53) Nwoye has a softer personality and hates the idea of blood and war. He agrees to listen to his father’s battle tales to please others, but they do not make him manly. Nwoye tries to become a “man” like his father and make his dad proud but it is hard …show more content…

‘Love, that’s all it is” by Isabel Teotonio. One might assume after hearing the title that this article is all about love. It does show the power of love but also the struggles of trying to fit a certain stereotype. Shelagh, formerly know as Steve struggled with her want to be a woman. She marries her wife as a man then breaks the news of always wanting to be a woman. Her wife almost divorced her, as her previous wife did, but they have stayed together still loving each other as before. Shelagh has now completed her transformation into her proper body and could not be …show more content…

Shelagh wanted the approval of her wife. They both struggle with the feeling of being unaccepted in a community. Nwoye finally stood up from himself and joined the colonizers disappointing his father and Shelagh came out to his wife taking her by surprised. All in all they ended being much happier after they realized that no one falls perfectly into a stereotype. We were born with the personality and life which was given to us and we have to do the right thing to make us happy; and that is what they both attempted to

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