Making New Friends and Water-skiing

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In the immediate area I had the Papworth kids and Trey Vars to pal around with. However, by 1964 I had branched out and was routinely spending my days with Pieter Bergen and Rhea Inglehart, or the Thomas kids water skiing. I found Rhea most attractive, and although we never became an item, we did become good friends. Rhea and Pieter resided a few miles away near Lake of the Isles while the Thomas family were another mile or two further downriver on Tar Island across from Grenadier Island. Both of those islands were in Canada. As it turned out, I later married Rhea’s cousin whose family had a summer cottage on Grenadier Island.
I was introduced to Rhea and Pieter because my parents socialized with their parents. This was not the way I met many of my other friends. My fascination with exploring the river was partly motivated by my desire meet other kids my age. If a saw a group of kids water skiing, I’d get my courage up and stop to ask how the skiing was going and thereby introduce myself. When I noticed a pretty girl as part of the contingent, I was twice as likely to stop to say hello. I met the Thomas kids on Tar Island this way and the Smith girls on Estralita Island too. Like throwing a rock into the water, the waves rippled outward. I took the first step by boldly introducing myself. This led to meeting them and their circle of friends, which led to making more friends until I eventually knew many kids.
Pieter and I were determined to become proficient water skiers, while Rhea had knee issues that limited her participation. The Gibson Girl only had a forty horsepower motor, which wasn’t sufficient power for faster skiing or for doing tricks like skiing barefoot. I remember using the Comfort for some of our skiing before Dad traded the outboard for a sixteen-foot Gar Wood Junior, which had an inboard motor and more power. Pieter and I spent hours practicing the basics of getting up efficiently, skiing across the wake and then jumping the wake. It wasn’t long before we developed a passion for mastering slalom skiing. I wanted to ski all the time during that period.
The Inglehart family knew it was lunchtime when I arrived. I recall a typical day at the Inglehart’s. I would arrive about noon dressed in a t-shirt, bathing suit and bare feet.

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