That feeling, the burning sensation when something amazing crosses people’s mind; the feeling of love, is it real or fake? Most commonly, love is fake and is harmful to someone's wellbeing, such as in the stories Romeo and Juliet, written by William Shakespeare, “The Raven” by Edgar Allen Poe, and lastly the article “Romantic Love: Reality or Myth?” by point/counterpoint. Love inflicts harm on the characters by giving false hope, leading to bad choices, and suppressing emotions with sorrow and depression.
Love can lead someone to do things they would not normally do, such as bad choices to impress the other person. In “The Raven” by Edgar Allen Poe, he wrote, “Respite, respite and nepenthe from thy memories of Lenore; Quaff, oh quaff this
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When love is eventually revealed in a relationship, it is most likely not sincere, and is only there as a label and not a connection. This is shown in Romeo and Juliet, when the author wrote, “My husband is on Earth, my faith in heaven. How shall that faith return again to Earth” (Shakespeare 3.5.206). The two lovers move way too quickly, as Juliet compares Romeo to her “Faith in heaven”. Within a span of 3 days, Juliet has put her whole heart and soul into this man that she barely knows, and that is the false hope of love. Similarly, in “Romantic Love: Reality or Myth?”, the author argues that one reason love is not real is that the brain creates fake scenarios that are different from reality (Romantic Love 368). What happens most commonly is that the terms “I love you”, "You’re the love of my life”, etc are used very loosely. When one person says that they “Love” the other, their brain jumps to conclusions and creates this fantasy picture of their life together. In America, the divorce rate is around 50%, and that most commonly comes from people not realizing the fact that their love may be …show more content…
If in that case the love were real, then yes, maybe it may bring good into someone's life. Now, not all love makes everyone happy, and that is why divorce, breakups, and leaving someone are a thing. Some may think they have love when they do not. However, when true love breaks, that would bring someone back to their sadness, possibly even further down than before. An example of this is given in Edgar Allen Poe’s poem “The Raven” when he wrote, “And my soul from out that shadow that lies floating on the floor” (48). Even though the narrator had true love, when he lost her he lost his mind. This ties back into the false hope as well as the sorrow and depression. He believed he had found the love of his life, but when she passed away he was given a loss of hope, and was spiraled down into a pit of
Love has been instilled as the "sexual desire...or blood ties of kinship...special bond and commitment" by society and mainstream culture and the new knowledge simply interrupt a well established and accepted idea. The reality of the biological aspects gives a demeanor of an attachment of two minds or two bodies parse rather than embodiment of love between two individuals. The experimental reasoning has not only stripped the attraction but sentimental aspect of love . It is often said that when people fall in love their hearts just know and they have a special feeling and that is what most people try to find, the emotion of love. The biology of love seems to detach the emotion from the individual by making love a matter of the brain rather than the heart. Furthermore, the notion behind "love at first sight" looses all meaning; as Fredrickson quotes from a collaborator, there must be "a true meeting of the minds- a single act, performed by two brains" , in essence the brains have to be coupling in order for the connection to truly forge and thus making "love at first sight" a thing of the past. The new insight forces an individual to
Love, what a small word for being one of the most powerful and complicated emotion someone can receive. Love grants people an experience of other emotions such as, sadness, happiness, jealousy, hatred and many more. It is because of those characteristics that love creates that make it so difficult to define the emotion in a few words. In the play, “Romeo and Juliet” by William Shakespeare, two star-crossed lovers, Romeo and Juliet, defy their parents in hopes of being able to be together and live a happy life. The characters in “Romeo and Juliet” show the characteristics of love through their words and actions throughout the play. The attributes the characters illustrate throughout the play are rage, loyalty, and sorrow.
Love can influence people in mysterious ways, the underlying cause is promise, that there is hope for something greater than oneself. We also see how this can create a chasm between family members. The fact of the matter is, love can stem from various situations, memories, or personal thoughts. There are some forbidden marriages that turn out to be a good thing, there are also parents who want give a home to an unsuspecting child they never knew they wanted. Certain situations determine who a person is through the experiences they are given and the feelings that are felt from it. Most of the stories that have come along are giving to us with an example of separation, a longing for love, an outcome that may or may not be beneficial in the long
Love is said to be one of the most desired things in life. People long for it, search for it, and crave it. It can come in the form of partners, friends, or just simply family. To some, love is something of a necessity in life, where some would rather turn a cold shoulder to it. Love can be the mixture of passion, need, lust, loyalty, and blood. Love can be extraordinary and breathtaking. Love being held so high can also be dangerous. Love can drive people to numerous mad things with it dangerously so full of craze and passion.
Love, an intense, deep feeling of connection, romantic, or sexual attachment showing affection for someone or something. As for all pleasant emotions, the feeling that comes with love is exquisitely satisfying. It feels like a cool, , long drink of water when you are parched on a hot day, it it refreshing. Scientists have a pretty good idea of what love does to the brain. Being in love floods the brain with chemicals and hormones that produce feelings of pleasure, obsession and attachment. Neuroscientists divide love into three phases: lust, attraction and attachment. During the lust phase, hormones flood the body with feelings of intense desire. Adrenaline and norepinephrine make the heart race and the palms sweat, while the brain chemical
“Love makes you foolish. It makes you throw every bit of logic away, do stupid things, dangerous things,” quoted by Melissa Marr. People in love lose their sense of logic and this emotion may cause them to act prior to thought. In the book Romeo and Juliet, written by William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet fall madly in love. This evoked a quixotic relationship, and their extreme feelings incited an abundance of irrational decisions. Since the two met, they ceased acting like themselves and only cared about each other. They made careless decisions without considering all of the possible consequences. Throughout the book, Shakespeare displays his opinion that love creates foolish decisions.
I believe Romeo is both right and wrong: unrequited love is painful, but Romeo does not truly love - as he is merely infatuated by a woman. Another type of love we are exposed to during the same scene is the love of Lady Capulet. Lady Capulet, as well as The Nurse, believes love comes from appearance, both physical and political, and has nothing to do with emotion. She shows this when she speaks favorably of Paris's looks and his nobility. She also shows that it is a superficial love by the way she treats Capulet when she publicly denounces him.
“Love is not just a verb” Kendrick Lamar. This verse in the song Poetic Justice was his way to say what love is and what is not. Love could be confused for lust. Lust for the appearance attraction. Many films and stories portray this type of love. In high school I was assigned to read the story of Romeo and Juliet. This story is a great example of the types of love. Were Romeo and Juliet driven by true love or lust? To start we would have to figure out which type of love if any in the story. Some may say that they lusted over each other, and didn’t love each other. The sexual desire was not the case, it is merely inexperience and immature. There are many instances of love in the story.
Love is a powerful emotion that affects everyone at some time in their lives. According to Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary, love is defined as a feeling of strong and constant affection for someone(1). Love can refer to the feelings between a couple in a romantic relationship, or it can refer to the affection one would have with a friend. When love is shown, each person cares about the other. Sometimes, love can be hypnotizing, causing one to do something they would not do normally. In “Gift of Magi” by O Henry and “The Tell-Tale Heart” by Edgar Allen Poe, it shows that love can make one do crazy things.
What is love? The age-old question arises once more. In truth, a universal definition has not been agreed upon, but generally one can define love as “an indication of adoration” or an “an ineffable feeling of intense attraction shared in interpersonal and sexual relationships.” Love can be directed towards kin, a lover, oneself, nature, or humanity- but regardless that love in an emotional sense is eternal. Some fall into love, and some claim they fall out. Love should be endless, lasting, and pure, but half of the time that love ends up being a sham. There is solid record of this false love- love that is meant to look pure- in the famous writings The Lottery and To His Coy Mistress.
Love is not usually well defined. People often think that they are in love, but they can�t explain it. There is a great dealing of confusion of the words love, and infatuation. Love may include romance, infatuation, affection and tenderness. But it could be love if one or more of the elements are not present. The definition of love varies from person to person. Love is essential element for all relationships. Much of what is written about love is either brief or mocking. Society in general is very cruel and heartless toward real love of any kind. Modern writing mocks marriages, husbands and wives, but condones adultery, and other obscene values. Real love is a mystery to most people. Most people never realize the true potential or value of love, nor do they learn to practice the art of love.
Love has been expressed since the beginning of time; since Adam and Eve. Each culture expresses its love in its own special way. Though out history, though, it’s aspect has always been the same. Love has been a major characteristic of literature also. One of the most famous works in literary history is, Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare. This story deals with the love of a man and a woman who’s families have been sworn enemies. There love surpassed the hatred in which the families endured for generations. In the end they both ended up killing their selves, for one could not live without the other. This story is a perfect example of true love.
Around the world people love. They live for love, they write for love, the sing, eat, cook, die and kill for love (ForumNetwork, 2009). Since the beginning of recorded time, people have wondered why love is such an intense and universal feeling. There is no culture in this planet that does not have love (ForumNetwork, 2009). This essay will only talk about romantic love were sexuality and attraction are involved. Romantic love, is one of the most powerful energies on earth (ForumNetwork, 2009), it is indeed one on the most addictive substances we can experience at least once in our life. The rush of cocaine and the rush of being in love depend on the same chemicals in our brain (ForumNetwork, 2009); we are literally addicted to love. The feeling of being in love does not depend whether the other part loves you back or not, it will help you feel more happy that is for sure, but the intensity of the feeling loved or heartbroken is the same, they both depart from the same principle: the love and desire of the other. Love remains in the most basic system of our brain, under all cognitive process, under all motor impulses; it is placed in our reward system, the most ancient systems of all (ForumNetwork, 2009).
Love could influence or affect people in positive ways by leading them to a healthier lifestyle and to new experiences. For example, they can change their unhealthy, damaging lifestyle due to a romantic relationship. They can be willing to take risks and attempt to chase things that they would not alone. It could lead them to a jubilant life, knowing they are receiving beneficial love and are transmitting healthy love. Although, love could influence or affect people in negative ways. It could lead them to leave or not accept opportunities that could benefit them in the long run, for a certain person. A so-called “friend” can claim to “love” his “friend”, but would lead him to wicked temptations like drug and alcohol abuse. A friend cannot claim to love their friends if they entice them to negative habits or to leave opportunities behind. How “This Ain’t Love” by Bizzle states it— “This ain’t love” (Bizzle, 2017). True love is leading each other to beneficial things that will mold the people within the relationship. 1 Corinthians 15:33 states, “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts good morals’” (New Living
“I love you.” These three little words might possibly be the most powerful statement one can make to another person. In life, most yearn for the intimate affection that a certain someone can provide them. Women dream of their Prince Charming to come and sweep them off their feet, while men search for the love of their life that sets their heart on fire. But what happens when love is thrown around without a second thought? Has this four letter word become an overused cliché? Has love been replaced with lust? Is there such a thing as true love? This last question has been asked throughout history, while many have argued and debated over the final answer. We, as a society, have become a loveless, sex crazed group of people with no concern for any emotion or attachment in our lives. So does this mean that true love does not exist? No. This only shows that achieving the deepest of feelings takes work that our fast-food eating, TV watching generation is not prepared to handle. I believe that true love does exist, but has merely been pushed aside by convenience, superficiality, and apathy.