Look Deeper Than the Mirror

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In the early 1930’s James Truslow Adams defined the American Dream as, “life should be better and richer and fuller for everyone, with opportunity for each according to ability or achievement”. His quote alone speaks about individualism, and nowhere is it written that you can’t be your own person. The meaning of the “American Dream” has changed drastically over time due to history and personal opinions; it has almost become a cliché. Embellished by these thoughts we fare to complement one another, in our eyes every day is a new awaking to competition. You would think we're all fighting for the same thing, survival, but we have different ways to achieve it. Whether it's legal or illegally we walk down individual paths on a journey called life that's trailed by the society we live in. In today's society we constantly get bombarded with a promotion of an up scaled world, based on unrealistic expectations and not reality; which produces insecurities, cultural influences and a lack of acceptance.
Many individuals suffer from self-esteem issues which are caused by insecurities from a lack of confidence. The actions of today’s society are largely based on influences from peers, the community we live in, how we we're raise, and through the media. It can be okay to not have confidence in yourself when taking up a new sport that you've only been playing for two day; not because someone calls you fat or you look different from those on TV, or even your classroom. The American culture puts so much emphasis on the ideal images of what a "perfect" man or woman should look like, but does such thing even exists? The vacant images of perfection causes confusion and questioning about one’s physical appearance but never how they should act or think...

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...and to woman who have more weight on them. If the world was set up for us to all be genetically the same there would be no need for racism, bullying or harassment of any kind and even that probably wouldn’t occur in a perfect world. Marilyn Monroe said it best, “imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” Set the trend, be yourself!

Works Cited

Adams, James Truslow. (1931). The Epic of America (Little, Brown, and Co. 1931)
Cloud, John. “Never too Buff.” Reading for Today. Ed. Gary Goshgarian. New York: Pearson Education Inc., 2008. 27. Print.
Iyer, Niranjana, “Weight of the World.” Ed. Reading for Today. Gary Goshgarian. New York: PearsonEducation Inc., 2008. 34. Print.
Valdes, Alisa. “My Hips, My Caderas.” Ed. Reading for Today. Gary Goshgarian. New York: Pearson Education Inc., 2008. 39. Print.

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