The personality of an individual and many other aspects of their life are integrated into their lifestyle as they grew up under the guidance of their parents. Some say that a person is born twice; once under the wings and guidance of their parents, and again when they themselves have children. In a lot of cases it is an arduous adventure, being a parent and in many ways, life changing. The difficulties that come to a parent or parents do not only arrive from the direct disturbances the offspring creates, but also knowing the fact that the way in which they act, punish, and teach will forever affect the life of that child. There are a variety of different outcomes from which the parent has had much effect on the child, some are simple as “like …show more content…
One of my best friends that I spent a lot of my childhood with, grew up in a much smaller house to parents, who did not earn make very much money. Aside from having the same name, my friend’s father shared a lot of similarities to Walter in A Raisin in the Sun, written by Lorraine Hansberry. Both of them also looked at investing in something and having a large outcome from it. “No—but after tonight. After what your daddy gonna do tonight, there’s going to be offices—a whole lot of offices”(Hanseberry108). This is similar to the father of my friend because both he and Walter, who was speaking in the quote, had big ideas and plans on something they probably did not know a whole lot about and eventually after little to no success both of these men have less money to work with. It shows a lot when a person grows up in a house with less money because they are more likely to hold tighter to what they have and less likely to be careless about purchases and unimportant wants. My friend is one that will always be seen taking care of what he has because that is something valuable that was taught to him indirectly by his parents. This is a little different from my family because all too often I notice that my brother does not take care of his personal things and ends up spending more money on new things that he would not need if he knew smarter in that
We come into this world like a ball of clay ready to be molded into a work of art. Our parents are often our biggest influences. We often learn our values and morals from our parents. Our temperament and what we learn is acceptable in terms of our behavior is learned and molded by our environment. If we are raised by well adjusted stable parents, we have an easier time adjusting to the adult world. When we are raised by someone who has unresolved personal issues from their past or has a personality disorder it is only then when the ball of clay can become a distorted version of its intended vision.
When a person makes a bad choice the can continue to make bad choices. Many of the people that surround a person can have an effect of by the way they act and do things. If a person makes bad choices it can be corrected easily early on. Sometimes it can be too late. If family and friends help support a child they can provide a strong support base by helping them grow up into a stronger and more stable person in the big world.Therefore there are numerous factors that go into the molding process of a child’s mind and lifestyle. Sometimes it can be parents and siblings, friends or their socioeconomic status. Most of these factors cannot be picked or chosen. One simply does not pick ones parents. You can choose to surround yourself by good friends or poor influences. Sometimes you get to pick where you would like to live, the type or size of the
In A Raisin in the Sun by Lorraine Hansberry; the theme of the play is when people are in poverty, lust increases. The play is about the Youngers, who are a family that just got an insurance check for the death of Mr. Younger for $10,000. Since they have this money, each family member has something they want to use the money for. They could not spend too much on anything and they were spending very little money in order to save it. They had to be very resourceful of where they placed their money.
The Millionaire Next Door written by William Danko and Thomas J. Stanley illustrates the misconception of high luxury spenders in wealthy neighborhoods are considered wealthy. This clarifies that American’s who drive expensive cars, and live in lavish homes are not millionaires and financially independent. The authors show the typical millionaire are one that is frugal, and disciplined. Their cars are used, and their suits were purchased at a discount. As we read the book from cover to cover are misconceptions start to fade. The typical millionaire is very frugal in all endeavors and finds the best discounts possible. A budget is implemented daily, monthly, and annually for a typical millionaire. They live by the budget and are goal oriented. Living well below their means is crucial for a millionaire, and discovering ways to allocate time and money more efficiently. The typical millionaire next door is different than the majority of America presumes. Let’s first off mention what it is not. The typical millionaire is surprisingly not the individual with the lavish house worth a million dollars, owning multiple expensive cars, a boat, expensive clothes, and ultimately living lavishly. The individual is frugal and often looks for discounts for consumable goods. The book illustrates the typical millionaire in one simple word: frugal. It is shocking to believe that this is true, but it does make sense. To achieve financial independence is inherently more satisfying and important than accumulating wealth. According to the book the majority of these millionaires portray characteristics of being sacrificial, disciplined, persistent and frugal. In the book it states, “Being frugal is the cornerstone of wealth-building. Yet far too often th...
In the Play “A Raisin in the Sun” by Lorraine Hansberry there are two main character’s that many people debate upon to be the protagonist of the play. Those two characters are Mama and Walter. The story is about an African American family living in Chicago in the 1950’s. During this time period race was a large issue in that area. The family consists of three generations, Mama being the mother and grandmother has a lot of responsibilities as what I see her to be as the families anchor. The next generation is Walter his wife Ruth and his sister Beneatha. Walter and Ruth have a song Travis who is ten years old at the time of this play. Mama is the moral supporter of the family and believes that everything has a purpose and that things should be done by design. One of the main events in this play is the life insurance settlement check for ten thousand dollars that Mama receives. This being a large amount of money during that time period creates many arguments between the families about what to do with the money. Walter is the type of guy that believes his family shouldn’t settle like everyone else and believes that they shouldn’t be held back just because they are an African American family living in what is referred to as a “white man’s world”. I believe that Walter is the protagonist of the play for two main reasons, he isn’t a selfish man, he doesn’t feel the family should be limited because they are African American and he has distinct options or plans for the future of his family.
Some experiences one cannot remember, such as the first year of life. Though we cannot remember this time of our life, we discovered and developed reactions to our world. Parent interaction is needed in this time to help develop a sense of trust; therefore, parents are a big deal as we develop. They are the ones we look to know how to respond to the environment around us. We develop some fears because our parents are afraid of them and we develop likes and dislikes based on what our parents’ interests are. Personality is a collaboration of our reactions to the world. Each personality is different, though some people may have similar aspects to another’s personality. The more common, the better they get
How one is parented during their life can easily relate to “cause and effect.” Retrospectively, how one was raised will, sooner or later, influence their actions and decisions. For example, if someone were to be raised in a disrespectful way, it is likely of that one to live a disrespectful life; cause is that you were raised poorly which results in the effect of living out a poor-mannered life. In Harper Lee’s “To Kill A Mockingbird”, a theme of parenting is evident in three characters: Bob Ewell, Calpurnia and Atticus Finch.
Parents and their parenting style play an important role in the development of their child. In fact, many child experts suggest that parenting style can affect a child’s social, cognitive, and psychological development which influence not just their childhood years, but it will also extend throughout their adult life. This is because a child’s development takes place through a number of stimuli, interaction, and exchanges that surround him or her. And since parents are generally a fixed presence in a child’s life, they will likely have a significant part on the child’s positive or negative development (Gur 25).
Parental influences can negatively impact a child’s life. An example of this is in the novel
During a child’s development, he goes through different stages in life, so parents create their own parenting styles from a combination of factors which evolve over time. For instance, during the stage of infancy,
Lorraine Hansberry’s carefully selected words in the play A Raisin in the Sun, prove to be a metaphor of the Younger’s past, present, and future life. During this time in American history it was hard for black people to make a name for themselves, and they were almost never seen as equals to white lives. As Hansberry describes the house in which the Younger’s live, she is always describing the struggle that they face. She starts this by saying “The Younger living room would be comfortable and well-ordered room if it were not for a number of indestructible contradictions to this state of being” (Hansberry 23). One could assume that has Hansberry speaks of the living room she is actually speaking of the lives of the Younger’s. Therefore as we
In the book A Raisin in the Sun, the time period is set in 1955. A time in America where African Americans still dealt with a constant struggle between them and the rest of the country. It touches on subjects that were very sensitive especially at the time the work was released. Even though the setting of the book was in the north, Lorraine Hansberry seemed to want to show that things weren’t that much better in the north than they were in the south at that time. Segregation was still being implemented in the law system, and there was a missing sense of equality among everyone. It shows that Lorraine Hansberry took what was going on around her environment and portrayed those situations into her work. The three events listed include Rosa Parks
Some factors that affect the child’s behavior are that they were born with certain character
Many people, for the most part, believe that the easiest stage in life is that of a child’s. Parents are usually the ones who stress themselves over the basic fundamentals a child needs in order for it to grow into a healthy, well-rounded adult. In many ways I acknowledge those statements to some degree, I believe both parties are deeply affected since the beginning of life is a gamble in its own. A child does not get to pick who its parents will be and much less the environment to which it may later be exposed to whether it is good or bad. By God or by nature, depending on what a person believes, are all gifted with a set of parents. Parent’s whom you love and at times despise with your entire soul because you’re still too immature to understand that 18 is just a number and not a passport to freedom. In this essay I will briefly converse about my father and our rocky relationship, excluding my mother
In the play A Raisin in the Sun, the author introduces various symbols as the play progresses, representing the dreams and desires of the characters. Among all these symbols in the play, the names of the characters illustrate each character’s personality best. Although symbols are usually physical objects that represent an abstract idea or thought, names have become symbols in this play, including Beneatha’s own name and George Murchison’s nickname for Walter Lee Younger, Prometheus.