Everybody who enters the military will eventually have to exit, which can be a crazy time, but through good planning and hard work veterans can be successful on the outside. I decided in 2014 that I was ready to exit the military, but I was far from ready. The nervousness and excitement was overwhelming and it was still another two years before I would become a civilian. There was a lot of preparation and discussion with my family before, during, and after exiting the military. After spending eleven years in the military it almost becomes habit just to stay remain in, but instead of accepting orders to England, my family and I decided to cancel the orders and get out of the military. We had spent a long time trying to decide what the best option for us would be, due to only being nine years from retirement. The stigma of retirement tends to be the only reason why individuals stay in the military, but to my family and I it was not worth the extra nine years of being away from relatives. Once deciding that it was time to exit the military, we needed to determine what to do the next two years. During the two years waiting to exit the military, we decided it would be a good idea to finish up some schooling. I had recently just finished up my Associates degree so it was time to start looking at what I wanted to do and where …show more content…
When taking the time to decide to get out of the military, develop a plan to determine what the steps during the wait period should be. During the time waiting for the separation date, accomplish some schooling and start applying to jobs. After exiting the military, enjoy the rewards of setting a plan and working hard to achieve success. Just because everyone has to exit the military at some point, doesn’t mean it has to be a negative experience or a negative
Another possible recommendation is discharge from the military from a General with honorable conditions (which is the lowest) to a Dishonorable discharge (which is the highest, and worst you can get). Getting a dishonorable discharge means you can’t get a job (if you do get a job it won’t be a good one), no benefits, or etc. Getting a general or other than honorable (OTH) you may lose health benefits, educational benefits, and etc.
...ble of pushing through these problems to win the freedom for our country. Don’t be like the summer soldier or sunshine patriot who are only there when the times are easy but not when the times are rough. This is a great time for us to show the states that we are strong men who don’t back down even when the situations are brutal. I know that all of you want to go home and see your family but do they need you as much as all of the states and George Washington need you? Now is not the time to back out and quit the army; we are halfway there so why quit when you are halfway towards freedom. Every time the situations get worse, a few will quit, and at the end of the day we will truly see who are the strongest and most loyal troops.
Though grueling and tedious, the rewards for hard work and studying are priceless. You leave the military with a whole new meaning of life. To be able to protect your friends, family, and country is an honor that anyone should be able to enjoy.
On the other hand, the military lifestyle carries much more responsibility than the civilian lifestyle. There is always the threat of heading into a combat zone and having to risk your life. You have to be on time to work, there are no "I got stuck in traffic" excuses. You must always be well-groomed, and live up to the working and presentation standards of your specific military branch. You never have the option of saying "no" or just quitting
There is an every growing need for college graduates that need government benefits. There are a surplus of able body men and woman looking for a career or a chance to better their life’s using the benefits provide by the Mandatory Military Services Act as a catalyst to improve the standard of living for each citizen. By having experience that will transience to the job market, with the job market being flooded with highly train workers with military background the overall productivity will greatly improve. (Ruschmann
Veterans have struggles with their civilian life after separating from the U.S Armed Forces. Returning to the civilian life seem to be a big challenge for veterans who have no prior job’s skills for civilian life because they had been influenced from military’s training, have physical and psychological damage.
Growing up I always had to deal with the fact that my father was involved in the military. My father was deployed twice: once in Germany, and later to Kuwait. I was only four years old when he first traveled and almost every day I asked where dad was. The second time I was fourteen, and I was devastated that my best friend wasn’t going to be home for a year. Both times he left, it was awful for my mom, my brother, and me because he was the one person that kept us together as a family and once he was gone we were just broken. A military family goes through more than a regular family does in a year. Those veterans have families, how do people think they feel. Children who live in a military family have a higher risk of depression, anxiety, and other mental issues. Although many people believe that we should send our soldiers overseas to keep our country safe, there is no reason why our
The very first hardship experienced is basic training, although basic training varies across all military branches they all serve the same purpose. Every year more than 180,000 people enlist in the armed (unknown 2014). That is about 180,000 people who had to leave loved ones behind and completely start a new life that may or may not include the ones that they love. Along with leaving loved ones behind there is also the challenge of completing basic training. Once the smoke has settled and all training is complete one can officially call themselves a solider, sailor, marine, or airmen which will officially make the member eligible for deployment operations. Some deployments may be easier than others but there is no doubt that deployments can definitely become a military hardship which can cause negative impact on a service members life. Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is one of the most commonly reported psychological outcomes following deployment (Wright, Breanna K., et al. 2013). A military deployment can have a major negative impact on service member’s lives. Deployments can take a toll on a service members personal and professional life which could lead to issues such as depression. The military can have a major negative impact on service member’s lives, however if one remains resilient the fruits of their labor will become
I joined the military and blossom into a new person deployed to Iraq twice and overcomes combat situation. This new adventure is where I gained my leadership roles but was still internally desired for my education. I met a special person and he had a degree and I left out my education equivalency after marrying I sneaked to a GED class and pass in three months. I was ready to start a new beginning and was allowing anything stop me in my tracks, BSW in 2014 and certainly ready to attack my MSW. I have the determination and has endured life realm to be where I am today. I have no regret for the outcome of life it has made me into the person that I am today; I hav...
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For anyone, there are time when things are going to change whether the change is planned or not. For military families change and loss often are not planned, and they have no choice in the matter. For any one person or family to move through change or loss it is important to go through the steps of transition, also know by Hall (2008) as the transition journey. The three phases of the transition journey that have their own focus and tasks are endings, neutral zone, and new beginnings (Hall, 2008). Not everyone follows the transition journey exactly, but this is a good example and tool to help individuals and families through the process. The three phases of the transition journey are going to be explained in further detail in this paper.
Every year, newly graduated young adults struggle with the idea of what they want to do for the rest of their lives. Many chose to go to college, some chose to go straight to work, and some will join the military. For those who join the military, they have several diverse reasons on why they chose to join, with attaining the benefits for their college education and on the job training being among the top two reasons (Wang 398). With this in mind, it is important for all service members to be aware of what those benefits are and how it will impact their higher learning. Along with these educational benefits, there are also other areas in which the military makes certain service members are prepared to take on the daunting task of going to college;
Being a soldier was a really tough life. In the end I hated doing the same thing day after day with no change in sight, I despised the leaders that didn 't take care of their subordinates, and most importantly, I couldn 't lead my soldiers from the front anymore. I 'll be the first one to say that joining the army was the best thing to happen to me. I have grown so much as a person and the lessons I learned are invaluable. In the end I realized the negative factors outweighed any possible benefit I might receive from continued service. It was time for me to
I grew up in a small town and after I graduated high school I wanted more in life than a 9 to 5 job; I wanted to see the world. I had a few friends that had joined the military and had come home to visit with exciting stories about their experiences. I noticed a change in a few of them; they seemed to walk a little taller, maybe act a bit more mature. This, along with the intrigue of life outside of my small town, drew me to consider joining the military. I met a recruiter in Lakeland Florida in July of 1989 and a few months later on September 26th I raised my right hand and took the Oath of Enlistment. I had no idea what I had gotten myself into.
The issue for military veterans is starting another career after 20 plus years of service is that of age and physical limitations. Considering veteran programs and having already put together a career plan for after the military will greatly increase the potential of another flourishing career.