Starting a new relationship can be done in many ways. In "The Bear" the relationship between Mrs. Popov and Mr. Smirnov happened to start out with a lot of hate in their hearts towards each other. In this case, it worked out to a happy ending to the story, as far as the readers know. In the story, we know that Mrs. Popov has a history of falling in love with a man that treated her with hateful actions of abuse, and unfaithfulness. The question is, does falling for a "bad boy" really a happy ending?
From the beginning, we already know that she was married to a man who was unfaithful to her. She often was abused by him, witnessed him flirting with other women and deceiving her, he left her alone for weeks, he squandered her money, he made a mockery of her feelings, and even after he passed she continued to find proof by the love letters left in his desk (line 80-84). She knew all about his wanderings from her and she still continued to stay committed to him. She was willing to shut herself off from the world, and lock herself in her house to show her love and dedication for her deceased husband. She vowed to mourn for him until she was put in the grave to show that she truly loved him. Some readers see that as a waste of time while others think it's a romantic touch to the play. Some may even argue that it's put as foreshadowing for the ending of the play. I think that her passion for showing love that desperately is a way for her to show that she knows how to love someone who can't love her alone. Some people have an issue with falling in love with a person who doesn't love them. People even have an attraction just for people who don't even make an effort to notice them or even spend a little of their time with them. It's very co...
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...-happy ending with Smirnov. Almost the same thing happened in the book Found. The young girl fell in love with a boy who was unpleasant around her and she wasn’t even in a relationship with him. Later when the relationship actually became announced he kept acting violently towards her. Later she found herself alone because of all the abuse. Sometimes when it feels like love when someone is just messing you, it could be a ‘heads-up’ for a hint that they might be abusive.
There are many factors that go into starting a relationship. Many girls tend to find a “bad boy” quality attractive. For some it’s just an act, but for others it could be very dangerous for their future together. As far as the readers know in the book The Bear it finished with a happy ending, but the truth about how their relationship started could be a hint that the end of it might not be so happy.
William Shakespeare (1564-1616) was a Renaissance poet and playwright who wrote and published the original versions of 38 plays, 154 sonnets, two long narrative poems, and several other poems. He is widely regarded as the greatest writer in the English language, and often called England’s national poet. Several of his works became extremely well known, thoroughly studied, and enjoyed all over the world. One of Shakespeare’s most prominent plays is titled The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet. In this tragedy, the concept that is discussed and portrayed through the characters is love, as they are recognized as being “in love”. The general umbrella of love encompasses various kinds of love such as romantic love, the love of a parent for a child, love of one’s country, and several others. What is common to all love is this: Your own well-being is tied up with that of someone (or something) you love… When love is not present, changes in other people’s well being do not, in general, change your own… Being ‘in love’ infatuation is an intense state that displays similar features: … and finding everyone charming and nice, and thinking they all must sense one’s happiness. At first glance it seems as though Shakespeare advocates the hasty, hormone-driven passion portrayed by the protagonists, Romeo and Juliet; however, when viewed from a more modern, North-American perspective, it seems as though Shakespeare was not in fact endorsing it, but mocking the public’s superficial perception of love. Shakespeare’s criticism of the teens’ young and hasty love is portrayed in various instances of the play, including Romeo’s shallow, flip-flop love for Rosaline then Juliet, and his fights with Juliet’s family. Also, the conseque...
The only successful loving relationship of the film is between Monster and the blind hermit, which is viewed as a satire against heterosexual family values by critics. It is a satire because the heterosexual relationships in the film fail. For example, the relationship between Henry Frankenstein and his bride is doomed because of the kidnapping and blackmailing, which is destined to ruin even the most solid relationship. Also, the relationship between the male and female monsters is not meant to be because the female monster will not stop screaming, thus making Monster set fire to the laboratory causing their deaths. Thus, the only relationship that thrives is between the two loners. The relationship only thrives until society discovers them and deems their friendship unnerving, which parallels the way in which society viewed, and in some ways still views,
The point is everyone looks the same when it comes down to it, so society should not judge by the way a person lives their life without the background information. The monster wants to be able to be loved by someone, which will not hurt him or disown him. “It’s warmth and rest that I need,” Humans are not accepting of new things which makes the
After reading the entire play, the reader can safely say that fate works in mysterious ways. To love and be loved in return is considered by many to be one of the greatest gifts a human being can receive. At the same time, it is thought of as unbearable to love someone you cannot be with. Especially when the reasoning behind limitations is cau...
Love is a powerful emotion, capable of turning reasonable people into fools. Out of love, ridiculous emotions arise, like jealousy and desperation. Love can shield us from the truth, narrowing a perspective to solely what the lover wants to see. Though beautiful and inspiring when requited, a love unreturned can be devastating and maddening. In his play, A Midsummer Night’s Dream, William Shakespeare comically explores the flaws and suffering of lovers. Four young Athenians: Demetrius, Lysander, Hermia, and Helena, are confronted by love’s challenge, one that becomes increasingly difficult with the interference of the fairy world. Through specific word choice and word order, a struggle between lovers is revealed throughout the play. In A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Shakespeare uses descriptive diction to emphasize the impact love has on reality and one’s own rationality, and how society’s desperate pursuit to find love can turn even strong individuals into fools.
... own childhood; no matter it are security and nurturing or abandonment and neglect, guidance and respect, or abuse and disdain. Not only the man becomes psychologically or physically abusive, but he is also aggressive towards his partner whenever he feels that his experience of rejection and consecutive disruption cannot be soothed by the defence that he mounted. Those people with a history of neglect or abuse, they usually not able to have confident in their partners whereby they perceive their partners as enemies instead of allies. These abusive relationships are often repeatable becoming more intense as if the man is riding on a rollercoaster ride. The rejection-abusive cycle is considered complete when the man felt he is not appreciated as his unrealistic expectation on relationships is not fulfilled - closeness and intimacy, in other words, further rejection.
...ay for years, believing it was a play about love, but the way Shakespeare wrote the play it is far from a love story. As Romeo moved from Rosaline to Juliet, for the simple fact that he believed Juliet is more beautiful than Rosaline, gives the perfect example that the play is based on desperation. Juliet says to Romeo, showing her desperation, “Good night, good night! Parting is such sweet sorrow / that I shall say good night till it be morrow” (II ii 188-189). When Romeo and Juliet say they cannot spend another night away from each other, it sets a perfect example of obsession in the play. Even Romeo knows he is anxious to force love when he says, “Th’ exchange of thy love’s faithful vow for mine” (II ii 127).
Love plays a very significant role in this Shakespearian comedy, as it is the driving force of the play: Hermia and Lysander’s forbidden love and their choice to flee Athens is what sets the plot into motion. Love is also what drives many of the characters, and through readers’ perspectives, their actions may seem strange, even comical to us: from Helena pursuing Demetrius and risking her reputation, to fairy queen Titania falling in love with Bottom. However, all these things are done out of love. In conclusion, A Midsummer Night’s Dream displays the blindness of love and how it greatly contradicts with reason.
The juxtaposition of the happiness and deep despair of the monster is only separated in chronology by the man shooting him. It is obvious that there is a cause and effect relationship between the shooting and the monster’s hatred for humanity. This hatred for humanity cannot be explained by nature because it contradicts the monster saving the little girl. Since nurture is about external stimuli shaping a person, one can directly conclude that monstrous behavior was a result of human interaction.
She seems to believe that manhood is the ability to perform acts of “direst cruelty” without remorse. Throughout the play we see that she worries her husband will not be man enough to do what she and him deem necessary to attain the throne. “Yet do I fear thy nature; / It is too full o' th' milk of human kindness . . .” She says. Constantly we see her telling her husband to “man up” - to stop feeling remorse or guilt or fear and to start behaving like she believes a man should; like a being with no guilt or remorse. However, it is this wish for her to lose all “passage to remorse” that eventuates in her death - her corruption - from the madness that comes upon her i...
...ghts. Love in Hamlet was depressing, where as love in Much Ado About Nothing is happy and often love at first site. Even though the love comes off in a different matter the love in these plays drives the character to do what they feel. Marriage in Hamlet was used to achieve assets where as in Much Ado About Nothing marriage originated from love. Marriage is desired by all at some point in their life. Death all in all is a very depressing and touchy matter however in Much Ado About Nothing it is often perceived as a joke, or a game. Each play has ideas of love, marriage, and death however, they are both viewed differently.
A young girl, like Juliet can be mesmerized by the idea of love and have the thought in her head that love is all that matters. The intensity of love in both of these texts becomes a dangerous and violent thing. Juliet goes through physical pain stabbing herself so she could be with Romeo after his death. Juliet looks at death as a positive thing because it allows her to be with Romeo again. Before she kills herself she says, “O, happy dagger, this is thy sheath. There rust, and let me die” (Shakespeare V.iii.174-175). In most romantic tales, violence is the last thing you would think of when it comes to love, but it would be different in this play. In both of these texts we see love destroy people mentally and physically; instead of bring happiness to their lives. When Juliet notices that Romeo drank poison and had killed himself, she was not only upset about his death but also seemed more upset that he “left no friendly drop to help me after! I will kiss thy lips. Haply some poison yet doth hang on them” (Shakespeare V.iii.168-170). This bond that seems to be unbreakable between them causes more harm than it would have if they were not together like society would want them to be. During this time period in the 16th century, the parents usually arranged marriages, so this goes completely against societal
Though love is in it, and true words and actions of love is deep in this. There is no true love in here, beside just the idea of what love could be for them. They knew each other four days. Four days, in that time they meet at a party, fell in love, got married in secret, Romeo getting kick out of town for (killing Juliet’s cousin), Juliet wants to kill herself, fakes her death with poison (provided by the so helpful fryer), Romeo kills himself because he thinks that his love is dead, and Juliet does the same when she wakes up from the “poison.” Four days all this happens, and yes some of it is beautiful, but let’s break this down a little bit more. They are both young, so they love so fast and heart break is horrible. They don’t know how to handle it, like all other teens do. Think back to a love you thought was going to be together forever, when you were a teen, aren’t you so glad it didn’t last. This is best understood as “Juliet 's allusion to the Phaeton myth, just as the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet begins to unfold in earnest, is an irony often noted. Less noted, if at all, is the fact that Juliet 's allusion does not merely describe Romeo 's fall from grace or her suicide with him in the Capulet tomb; but perhaps of greater interest, it describes Juliet 's own Phaetonlike fall from an empyrean--a state of being--where all once seemed constant and completely understood. When Juliet learns of
... look into the depth of the play, the reader understands that it was not real love reigning in the lives of the young people. Even the name of the comedy confirms this idea. Much ado about nothing - that was the best description of the development of the events. "Every principal person has become involved in an error," said Bertrand Evans. The final marriage was an error, too. Although people have different opinions about real love, there is one thing that is always common about this subject: love comes once, it never leaves, never fades, never causes doubts. When two people experience real love, they fly in the skies, but at the same time they are always ready to stand firm on the ground of every day life. Hero and Claudio never stand firm, when Bene*censored* and Beatrice never fly. Although love is the main topic of the play, it never appears in the plot.
It is the loss and gain of love that makes us who we are. Loss of a parent, who you thought you might be, whom you thought you could trust, and the people you love. . One of the things Shakespeare revealed was that love makes life complicated. Whether you were a peasant or nobility attending this play; everybody can relate. Love brings struggle but it also brings so much joy in the process. It opens your heart to new beginnings and chances. The same way Claudio opened up to Hero’s doppelgänger or the way Beatrice forgave Benedick and loved him anyway. It opens your heart to new places. Love isn’t a fantasy we all hope exists, it is real. We just have to work to find it and work even harder to keep it. Who do you love?