The Pros And Cons Of Intimate Partner Violence

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Without proper information about relationships, quickly things could turn bad. New relationships offer a new, warm experience. Relationships offer a distraction from the everyday hum of normal life. Intimate partner violence, also known as IVP, can be described as any mental, physical, or emotional harm that is inflicted by a partner. IVP is also connected directly to a person’s health-related quality of life. Health-related quality of life is how someone’s health relates to how they view their life. For example, if a person who is paralyzed may not have as good of a health-related quality of life as someone who can move freely. Intimate partner violence needs to be stopped and with proper training, fair punishment, and education it can be. …show more content…

Health facilities usually hold a major part in the ending of abusive situations. They usually are the first places women go for help when they 're in trouble. Health care facilities have a history of not taking cases of IVP seriously. A lack of training and not enough resources are the cause, these types of facilities to be unable to give the proper care to victims. There is a general consensus that the health facilities should comprehend and use the following actions: ask all victims about violence, pay attention to the signs and symptoms of abuse, give health care assistance and register all cases. (Goicolea) Often these steps are not followed. Abuse can be ignored in order to protect the abuser or even the victim in some cases. Leaving the victim believing that they are the reason for the abuse, which is never the …show more content…

Churches seriously lack any form of training when it comes to dealing with cases of IVP. This causes religious women to stay in abusive relationships longer. Anna Gardener, a mother and a victim of intimate partner abuse, sought out her church for help. She first went to a pastor for help. "A pastoral counselor told me the abuse was my fault because I was too controlling," recalls Anna. "When my husband pushed me into a dresser, herniating one of my discs, an elder 's wife asked me, 'What did you do to provoke him? ' At that point, I quit reaching out and started praying I 'd find a way out." (Graves) Anna realized she was in an abusive relationship, but she did not know she has to report it. Due to not having access to information about IVP Anna did not get help. It wasn’t until nearly ten years later that her physician asked her about the abuse and taught her that she needed to take steps in order to end it

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