Mrs. Connie Kareem (Connie) a happy 68 year old agreed to be the subject of the interview and the reflection paper. We attend the same church and have enjoyed sharing casual conversations from time to time. I chose to interview her because of the apparent ageless approach to life that she exhibits. Her timeless humor is refreshing as she embraces every moment of life by living it with an optimistic enthusiasm. When I arrived at her home for the interview, she directed me to the kitchen. In preparation of our meeting, she had prepared refreshments of homemade cake and a pot of coffee. We sat that the kitchen table. She was smiling, maintaining eye contact as she sat back in her chair getting comfortable. We began our discussion easily …show more content…
She values all relationships, however the relationships with her non-biological family members hold special meaning. She explained this as a gift to be able to connect with outside people and have a special unexplained bond with them. She considers herself rich in her relationships. . She is the youngest child in a family of four children. Her role in the family changed several years ago, when she became the primary caregiver for her mother, who passed five years ago. She has always been a confidant to her nieces and nephews, she describes herself as an older sister them rather than an aunt. Since her mother’s death she does not see her role in the family changing. Her siblings have children, so she does not see a need to provide assistance if they were to start failing in their health. Currently she feels her role in the family is what she expected, she is hip fun sister and aunt in her family. She has a strong relationship with her extended family. She took time to build relationships with her nieces and nephews. As single person with no children, I see the benefit of these relationships. My hope is when she is older, her extended family will step in and assist her as needed. As a social worker it would be beneficial to my clients to encourage strong relationship with the younger people in the …show more content…
Connie demonstrates the importance of human relationships. Now that she is the mature adulthood stage of life, these relationships hold more meaning. Connie does not have children, so her extended family provides the support her biological children would have provided. I believe the network of associates, friends, and family members help to reinforce her positive way of thinking by providing her with enriching memories and interactions. This mixture of people and interests help her to stay relevant and in tune with the times. Her willingness to assist me further demonstrates an investment in relationships that is commendable. I cannot help but think that her ease of conversation which was witty, funny, and timely is in part because her relationships help her to remain relevant. At the close of the interview I asked if she had a word of advice for me. She encouraged me to live my life for myself and with no regrets. We only go around once in this life; there are no “do
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She tells her story to anyone her asks about her past, and it always seems to affect them in a positive way. She tells anyone who is currently going through what she has experienced, to not give up, and stay head strong. She empathies with them and counsels them in any type of way that could help them. She very strong wiled and head strong, but also extremely kind and caring towards others. Her quote to everyone is, “Success is admired because is not easy to do and not everyone archives it, but if you do teach
The therapist would work to sense the triangles that are currently formed between family members. Also find understanding of the family by use of role reversals along with challenging the family with putting universal principles at odds with the family’s beliefs. By creating unbalance with warmth and support, the therapist looks to increase family cohesion and harmony. The therapist will also investigate the family dynamic by allowing them to express and name the symbolic interactions that are shared so that can be uncovered and understood. Once the family’s symbolic and real curative factors are addressed, the therapist can push for growth and maturity in the family. Because the family is seen as individuals in a family unit for example established
The participant requested that he only be referred to as Bob within the confines of this paper. I'd like now to sum up Bob's life in the way you would see in a newspaper testimonial. Bob is a forty one year old supervisor in a well-known factory. He has a wife and three children within the confines of his nuclear family. Bob identifies as agnostic, though he was raised in the Christian faith, and does not have a specific political alliance as he feels the government today is dominated by extremes on both sides and finds the system to be broken. He lives in rural Illinois and his socio-economic status is middle class. I've always felt that those type of summaries do not properly capture who a person truly is. I feel that we have to hear a person's story to understand who they are. A turning point in his life would be when he made the decision to get his degree. Not actually getting the degree, just deciding to do so. He realized his past experience meant nothing and he had to make a change to better provide for his family. It seems a point of pride that he achieved this with no one telling him that he had to do it, but it was his own drive that pushed him toward it. A positive experience from his childhood would be when his third grade teacher, Mrs. Thomas, told him he was a very good writer Bob notes that though he has never written a book he still prides himself on his writing abilities citing being able to write an English paper the night before and still receive an 'A'. A negative childhood memory that still haunts Bob is when a girl, in junior high, that he wanted to ask to be his girlfriend rejected him in a public, and humiliating manor. He looks back now and notes that it was merely "kids being kids", never the less it e...
For that, I interviewed my boss, Karen. I see her almost every work day but there were still many things I wanted to ask her about. I knew that she had been married to a man before she met her wife, and that she still had his last name even after separating and remarrying. I also knew that her father was a Methodist minister and performed her marriage ceremony back when he could’ve gotten in a lot of hot water for doing so. I knew that she was adopted, too. But the rest of her life, the in-between moments, were still a mystery to me. So, I really enjoyed that interview. As you can tell from the transcription, we laughed a lot and got along well. I think she felt comfortable and she told me later that she had enjoyed talking with me. I also came more prepared and with more questions. It was hard to do my initial research on my student interviewee because there wasn’t a lot of prior information that I could find about her. With Karen, I not only had my own prior information, but she is also easily found on the internet. A lot of that has to do with her age and the businesses she has been involved
Have you ever been on a drive and became enthralled by the reminiscent stories of an elderly lady? We were driving around Salt Lake City with family looking at homes where my grandmother, Betty, lived as a child and early in her married life. She was engaged in reminiscing and shared many stories of her childhood and early married life. The interview was finished at her home. The information was written in note form. My grandmother is an 82-year-old Caucasian. Her third husband passed away a little more than a year ago. She was married to him for about fifteen years. She lives in her own home, built by her second husband, in Bountiful, Utah. Her youngest daughter, who is 42-years-old still lives at home with her. She is physically
Hello Mrs. Kay, I would like to thank you for allowing me to sit down and interview you. I really appreciate your time and will be completely understanding of your opinion and thoughts on this subject. Now let’s begin.
My interview with Ms. Chung was of moderate duration, lasting for about half an hour. While it occurred over the phone, it felt somewhat personal. Ms. Chung certainly has a knack for connecting with those she engages. Questions largely pertained to her career but some of her life and personal story shined through in her answers. It was a very revealing and thought provoking experience for m...
As I ponder whom I could possibly interview, my wife suggests, what do you think of interviewing my dad? This immediately appeals to me but there are challenges. He is living in a VA nursing home with early onset dementia. He also has a hard time hearing due to his injuries roughly forty years ago. This would make a phone interview extremely difficult. Instead, I start to formulate a similar idea, what if I interviewed my wife on her experiences as the child of a disabled veteran? I move forward with this idea with a dose of apprehension. I don’t want my wife to relive any pain. During the interview I find just the opposite to happen.
This is an interview about Nancy Tran, 72 years old, female; who is the author’s grandmother. She currently lives with her 42 year old son in Springfield, Missouri. The purpose of this life review interview is to give Nancy a chance to reflect and express her feelings about unresolved trouble or traumatic life events. It also gives the author the benefits from the reminiscences of Nancy’s life by gaining a new perspective on life. This interview was in Nancy’s living room, and they had some tea to drink to give Nancy as much comfort as possible. They seated closer to each other in the same sofa and maintained direct eye contact throughout the interview. The television was turned off, so they could focus on the interview. Beginning the interview
Today I interviewed an elderly woman who is a resident in the County Nursing Home. As I entered her room, she was sitting up awake and alert. As we talked, I explained to her that as a nursing student, I'm required to complete a paper on any person over the age of sixty-five. I asked her if it would be okay to interview her. She enthusiastically agreed, therefore, I proceeded with the interview.
Mrs. K is a woman in the late adulthood stage of life. She and her husband are celebrating 37 years of marriage, have two adults sons and an adult daughter, and three grandchildren. Mrs. K recently retired within the past few years, and her husband retired less than two months ago. Mrs. K stated that her life is busy, between babysitting her grandchildren, working part time, and keeping connected to the community. She looks forward to planning trips with her husband in their retirement such as New York City and Ireland. She appears to have a close bond with her adult children and greatly enjoys when her grandchildren visit. Mrs. K retired from a successful career at a local high school where she worked with students who faced developmental
She is a twenty-two-year-old Guest services Agent who is presently working at the Sheraton Hotel in Queens, New York. During my interview with her I discovered that she and her family of four migrated from Jamaica in search of a better life here in the United States of America. She portrayed a warm and friendly personality, as such it was easy for me to talk with her about self-identity. She informed me that while she was in Jamaica she excelled in High School and went on to University where she studied Health Science. Her reason for choosing that field was because her mother was very much involved in her development and encouraged her to stick to the sciences where she could specialize in becoming a medical doctor in the future. Listening to her, I realized that her decision at the time was based on what her mother had in mind for her and not necessarily what she wanted to become. I questioned her if she had figured out what she wanted to do with her life then, she clearly had no idea therefore she just followed her parent instruction. She pointed out that her mother who played a significant role in her life, always instilled in her the importance of a good education and that becoming a doctor would be the right choice. When she arrived in the United States everything changed. I followed up with the conversation and she told me that she started rebelling and didn’t want to go back to
I interviewed a fifty-five year old female named Theresa Geis. She is married to Robert Geis and they have four daughters including me. They reside in Denver, Colorado with one daughter still in the house. Theresa graduated with a master’s degree in teaching with a focus in special education. She grew up in Greeley, CO but enjoys Denver and where she is currently at. Theresa and Robert have had the same house in Denver for twenty-one years now and have recently bought a cabin in Estes Park which is on the border of Rocky Mountain National Park.
There are so many different types of family relationships. Whatever form a family takes; it is an important part of everyone’s life. My family has played an important role in my life. Good family relationships serve as a foundation to interactions with others. Supportive families will help children to thrive. The quality of the family relationship is more important than the size of the family. Making the relationships priority, communication, and providing support for one another is key to developing relationships. Family relationships are what make up our world today; they shape the ways that we see things and the ways that we do things.