Relationships are as essential to humans like any basic necessity such as food or water. Throughout history, relationships have assisted human beings in persevering together through both physical and emotional challenges in life. However, the stability of these relationships are incessantly vulnerable to deterioration. This unfortunate outcome has been investigated in numerous works of literature. In two of such works, “Interpreter of Maladies” published in 1999 by Jhumpa Lahiri and “Aguantado” published in 1996 by Junot Diaz, the authors reveal through various tones as well as diction the respective themes of each story how selfish desires lead to the demise of relationships.
Lahiri, in writing “Interpreter of Maladies”, included elements
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In “Aguantado”, the main character Yunior’s mother was anticipating the return of her husband from New York back to Santo Domingo where his family lives. However his promise to come back to his wife was not met, Diaz describes her reaction, “When he didn’t show she sent everybody home, sold the goat back to its owner and then almost lost her mind” (82). There is no doubt that Yunior’s mother is beyond disappointed in the realization that her husband would not be returning. While her husband had originally left for work, it was evident that he had abandoned his poor family, living in the states while his family was still stuck in poverty in Santo Domingo. Diaz indicates how this selfish behavior lead to him losing the love of his wife through the phrase “ almost lost her mind”. Not only does this set a tone of loss and misery, something commonly associated the losing of one’s mind, the diction also demonstrates the severe consequences of selfishness.This is especially true when someone who is bound with expectations of a relationship but fail to meet them. If Diaz had left it at simply the fact that her husband did not show, sure it may be implied that Yunior’s mother is disappointed, but the addition of suggesting that she almost lost her mind makes the point of the author as clear as day. Yunior’s father betrayed his wife’s trust, a trust that is
The simplistic expression of one’s needs outside oneself and making other’s party to the thought processes has actively contributed to extensive capitalism, and rising divorce rates, substance abuse/drugs, types of addictions, depression, and suicide. In some cases there is equally a self loathing attitude and notable aversion to relationship, intimacy and the engagement that comes from adult relationships. Myriad shades of relationship dynamics, influenced by the childhood experiences and interactions which form opinions as an adult. The eight stages of the development in a child results in relativity, in individuals from the aspect of the object theory.
In his 2001 film entitled Lantana, director Ray Lawrence provides a dramatic look into the consequences of jealousy and infidelity in relationships. The film focuses primarily on two couples, Leon and Sonja, and John and Valerie, whose relationships are both seemingly in the midst of their own downward spirals. As the story unfolds and the issues affecting each of these relationships are uncovered, the film paints a vivid picture of the different ways that such themes can quickly bring ruin to relationships, and, in the case of some of the film’s characters, lives.
Relationships play an important role in one's life. They are formed on the basis of love and understanding. Relationship helps various people in every aspect of life and assists them in being a better person. Such a relationship was found in the novel
Insecurity and low self-confidence can be influential and very determining factors in shortening an individual’s life span; especially if you are an individual who is marry and has jealousy issues. In Robert Olen Butler’s short story “Jealous Husband Returns in Form of Parrot Analysis.” We can appreciate the perfect example of how trust issues and not been able to exercise strong communication skills can make you a coward, a miserable, and pathetic low life human being; having such characteristics will eventually deteriorate and liquidate your relationships with your loved ones. In this essay we will analyze the different elements that Robert Olen Butler uses in order to educate
Love and affection is an indispensable part of human life. In different culture love may appear differently. In the poem “My god my lotus” lovers responded to each other differently than in the poem “Fishhawk”. Likewise, the presentation of female sexuality, gender disparity and presentation of love were shown inversely in these two poems. Some may argue that love in the past was not as same as love in present. However, we can still find some lovers who are staying with their partners just to maintain the relationship. We may also find some lovers having relationship only because of self-interest. However, a love relationship should always be out of self-interest and must be based on mutual interest. A love usually obtains its perfectness when it develops from both partners equally and with same affection.
In chapter 2 the author Gabriel Garcia Marquez shows an innocent and pure love. Marquez adds “Shoot me. He said, with his hands on his chest. There is no greater glory than to die for love”. Lorenzo Daza had took at him sideways, like a parrot, to see him with his twisted eye. .. That same week he took his daughter away on the journey that would make her forgot” (82). In this section the author introduces Fermina’s dad, who is not happy for the relationship her daughter have with Florentino because Florentino is poor and has nothing to offer to his daughter. Lorenzo Daza wanted her daug...
The novel “This Is How You Lose Her”, by Junot Diaz, consist of multiple short stories that connects with the main overall story and character. All of the story, except for one, is narrated by the main character, Yunior. Yunior was once a bookworm but began leading down the path of uncertainty, and multiple love affairs that many times ruined his relationships. Although the story has some focus on his family affairs, everything would always tie back to love lost. One chapter focused on his families struggle to live in the US. It exemplifies that every human being does not like being alone. Yunior definitely had a thing going with Ms. Lora. Theoretically, the relationship that Yunior had with her had put a strain in his lust for a “secret” type
A dysfunctional relationship is a relationship that doesn’t perform to their appropriate function and deny emotional or physical support via either or both participants. As a result of this, individuals will often suffer -but not limited by- a risk of developing mental issues such as depression, low self-esteem, independence, irrational behaviour or guilt. Visual texts such as ‘Rick and Morty’, ‘American History X’, ‘One flew over the cuckoo's nest’ and ‘Shameless (US) Season One’ all explore the implications of a dysfunctional relationship evident by character actions and attitudes that change and develop over time due to their relationships. DIfferent factors that are involved in these developments are how these characters interact with
In the short story “The Cheater’s Guide to Love” by Junot Diaz, the author pinpoints on the Yunior’s life as a writer and college professor who is also struggling with his romantic relationships. The short story is filled with his experiences of using women for his beneficial needs and how it negatively affects him. It focuses on Yunior’s downfall through life after the destruction of his relationship with his fiance. The diction includes the narrator’s hateful consideration of women and a paradox of his own endeavors which prevent him from pursuing a meaningful relationship, but he grows to realize that he treats women awfully and his ex did the right thing by leaving him due to his untruthfulness.
Throughout human history, cancer has devastated people and their families, but until recently, little was known about the gruesome disease. As oncologist Siddhartha Mukherjee made his oncology rounds during his fellowship, he witnessed the horrors of cancer and yearned to know more about its history, treatment, and prevention. His book, The Emperor of All Maladies: A Biography of Cancer, he takes the reader on a journey through time, discussing the major events in cancer research. He also analyzes the characteristics of cancer, of what cancer was once though to be, and the changes in the perception of the disease. In all, Mukherjee personifies cancer in his book, and the use of the word ‘biography’ in the title becomes highly appropriate as
Love is powerful and could change a person’s personality. In “The Book of Unknown Americans”, the author Christina Hernriquez tells us the definition of love. It is a book combined with different stories but each story is connected to others. It talks about the immigrants that moved to America with lots of hope, but didn’t end up with a happy ending. The story is about love, hope and guilt and different kinds of emotional feeling. In the book, Mayor has an internal change because of Maribel, and the power of love. He wants to be a strong man who can protect Maribel. He used to be someone who couldn’t defend himself and he changed because of Maribel.
Evidently, with what readers presume to be the “man of her dreams”, Clemencia's mother seems to be in her own world as she completely disregards her life with her former husband and their children. This does not bode well for Clemencia as she holds a lot of resentment towards her mother, that will likely never resolve due to the fact that Clemencia's mom is not around in the world anymore. Even though, her mother may not be in this world anymore, Clemencia will always wonder why her mom did marry her father.
Studying the Sun, The Moon, The Stars, by Junot Diaz, brought the realistic image of an intimate relationship in a way I never expected. The main character in the story Yunior says in the beginning, “I’m like everybody else: weak, full of mistakes, but basically good”, starts telling information on how his personality is. Yunior is not a bad guy even though he cheated on his girlfriend; these comments are retrospective because he makes them when the relationship between Magda ended. Diaz theme of personal responsibility and the way it sustains a relationship, which Yunior fails to accept the responsibility for his own actions, attributing his infidelity to “others” rather than to his selfish behavior.
The chapter talks about the different types of relationships you can have and how to keep them healthy. The relationships that the chapter covers are friendship relationships, love relationships, family relationships, workplace relationships, and the dark side of interpersonal relationships. Friendship relationships are relationships with another person that is “interpersonal” (DeVito), “mutually productive and characterized by mutual positive regard” (DeVito). Love relationships are a next level of friendship relationships. Love is known as the most important types of relationship, because it is a natural human desire to be loved. There are six types of love relationships; eros, ludus, storge, pragma, mania, and agape. Family relationships are the relationships between you and the people you are related to by blood and marriage. Family relationships are known as primary relationships, primary relationships are the relationships that are most prominent in your life. Workplace relationships are the relationships that you have in your workplace, with your co-workers and bosses through networking and mentoring. The dark side to interpersonal relationships is that there are negative aspects to having relationships. These aspects are jealousy, bullying and violence among other things. All of these relationships are affected by culture, gender, and
As a conclusion, love is unique among those mental states. Although we celebrate love, we also recognize it can resemble an illness. Thus, the word love is complemented by love sickness. There is equivalent construction that relates to any other positive mental state. Poets experience a sickness as a consequence of the absence of their lovers. Also, psychiatry recognizes abnormally elevated mood in the form of mania. Lovesickness and the anguish of rejection, however, can lead to anguish and real suffering—both mental and physical. If love is a sickness then perhaps it has a cure. However, the wounds of love are cured by only by those who made them.