Influence Of My Family Essay

My Family’s Influence
Introduction
It was not until a few years ago, that I realized how my family had a tremendous influence on my choices of partners, communication and thinking style, as well as my sexuality and identity. Now, I have realized that learning to understand your family and who you are makes a world difference in the choices that you make in life.
Communication Style
On my research in communication styles, I discovered there are five different types of styles: assertive, aggressive, passive-aggressive, submissive, and manipulative. Delving through each category, I discovered my family fits into the assertive, passive-aggressive, and aggressive communication style. My aunt Elsa and cousins who I grew up with are passive-aggressive and aggressive communicators. My aunt Lydia and Jessica

My family highly identifies with their African roots and in a heartbeat they will not hesitate to let you know where you come from. Being taught at a young age to love and respect my culture and ancestors is something that will always stay with me. Last year, that love for my culture transpired when I decided to name my daughter Zuri, in honor of my past ancestors who risked their lives during the Trans-Atlantic Slavery Trade to provide a better life for their future generations. Zuri is a Swahili name and it signifies beauty.
Like many cultures of color, Garifunas passed down traditions orally. My family history is passed down through oral storytelling. For instance, my grandmother told me stories that my great-grandfather was a necromancer who spoke to the dead and alleviated their suffering. In today’s world he would be considered a medium. My family’s oral traditions have influenced me to continue my legacy with Zuri. I sing and tell stories to Zuri of her ancestry. By introducing her early on to her heritage, she will have the same appreciation and love as I