And in some cases people take the best with what they have and make it work. A common reason why someone might not have the motivation to strive towards their goals is because they might not have the support or anyone to push them to do better. On the other hand, some people push themselves with or without people supporting them to prove people wrong or to make something of themselves. Everyone faces obstacles. These obstacles depending how you react to them make us who we are.
Getting all positive characteristics cannot be happen all in one day, but through commitment and practice anybody can have it. Although forgiving the people who hurt me is not easy, I became able to do it through willingness and practice. Because good characteristics can be learned, people can become the person they want to be. Self-confidence and hard worker characteristics helped me to stand steel in the mist of confusion and to become strong to achieve my dreams. Additionally, the characteristics I mentioned earlier are helping me to have good relationship, peace in my mind, and ability to do things successfully.
Even though it may cause me frustration, it gives me motivation to do better. If others around me feel hurt by this personality, I expect them to approach me about it. I will assess the situation, and deal with it correctly, even if it means changing my ways. I believe this personality will carry into adulthood, and that’s not such a bad thing. It will encourage me to be the best for my children, husband, and in my job.
To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. Trust is something that two people can build together, once they both decide that they could trust one another. It is an attitude that we seek in people in hopes that they become worthy to be trusted (McLeod 5). The definition of trust varies, but it is primarily putting confidence in someone that they would do what they are trusted for. Trust is a make or break, it could either make a relationship or break it.
Self-improvement will guide you to be aware of your beliefs, attitudes and behaviors. It also enables you to accept yourself and be responsible for your actions, attitudes, and thoughts. As we all know, every time we try to pursue our quest for personal development, often times we fail because of our weak self-discipline, especially if the things we're trying to change about ourselves are very tempting to do. So in the middle of our quest, we give in to the temptation and end up failing. So in order to
With that, equal attention must be committed to not only to a child with the highest achievement, but to the other child with the lowest achievement as well. Learning from my experience had made me gain self confidence, knowing that I can achieve things, and not think negatively about things I can do. To others who feel neglected, or lack self confidence, I say don’t let yourself down just because you’re being outshined by others, and feel like you’re worthless. It’s not the end of the world. By believing in yourself, and finding something you can be good at will help you gain the confidence you need.
Self-confidence is the key to success. It is a different case for people, some are naturally born with a strong self-assurance, other work hard for it, and others have no idea on how to obtain a strong self-confidence. Luckily, trying to obtain a strong self-confidence can be carried out over time. Researchers have proven that when a person has a strong self-confidence about themselves it helps them face their fears, their well-being (mentally, physically, and emotionally) and setting future goals. Throughout history, society has changed and people with low self-confidence need to change an equal mentality.
There is always a room for improvement. We might fail or receive negative comments and feedbacks but that does not stop us from improving and getting better. Confidence is one of the qualities, which people are either born with it or have to work for it and I am someone who is currently working on. Lack of self-confidence drives me to ask my friends in to guide me whenever I begin to do something. I believe that self-confidence cannot be taught or explained to someone, it is to be reached by an individual when he/she decides to believe in oneself.
Between these two cycles, Going Nowhere cycle leads us to self-defeating behavior. We tend to continue to be stuck in our behaviors in which have resulted in failure, negative feelings, and also our not-working life. In addition, Going Somewhere cycle helps us to be a successful person and tends to have a sense of self-worth as well as self-confidence. This cycle also helps us to know that we are in charge of what we do and who we really