Importance Of Buddha Necklaces

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Firstly, my Buddha necklace is an item that I would forever cherish because of its sentimental values. It was given by my dead grandmother on my dad's side. Nary-my grandmother, was a very religious individual who devoted her life to Buddhism hoping that one day, she would influence me. I remember the cold gold necklace against my warm skin, the three glistening Buddha’s reflecting its glory against the sun, and the feeling of being protected whenever I was scared. This was not just a piece of jewelry. This necklace has sentimental value that gave me happy nostalgia and emotional memories my grandmother and I shared. Till this day, it is still the most special gift I have ever received. Despite this, the necklace has caused conflict between …show more content…

The smell of burning incense seeped inside the temple walls, the ocean breeze always drafted though the house frequently giving me chills whenever we chanted, however, sitting next to my grandmother and seeing her smile always made me feel cozy and comforted. The shades of orange saffrons varied between each monk and always contrasted against the white walls of the temple. Shrines filled every corner of the temple but the shrine upstairs astonished me every time I visited. The complex layout and detailing of the vivid hues of food, candles, flowers, and crystals in the shrines was impeccable and necessary to express reverence and gratitude for Buddha. The strong scent of lemongrass meat, fresh rice, and seasonal fruit flowed from the kitchen to the living room. Which always used to distract me. On the contrary, ever since my grandmother passed away I am now unable to attend temples. My grandpa would always tease me and bug me if I were to ever visit the temple again and thus, would be one of the conflicts I experienced. My mom would state that I didn’t believe in God nor Jesus because I didn't go to sermons. In like manner, my peers would always argue that I can only believe in one religion, not two. The fading conflict of attending temples was a relief but food was another opponent on the rise to introduce another conflict …show more content…

I think that each religion has a unique twist and reveals individuality in terms of preparation, presentation, and of course flavor. Ranging from the strong aromatic spices of Cambodian food to the sweet crispy smoke meat of Guamanian food. Chamorro food - food from the island of Guam, connects the sweet, savory, and smoky flavors that give me the recollection of my grandfather’s old restaurant in Las Vegas. While the spicy, tangy, and sour impressions are more prevalent in Cambodian food, never fails to make me reminisce when my grandmother prepared large home cooked meals for my big family. The conflict started to construct itself whenever I refused to eat the unfamiliar Cambodian food I’ve never seen or eaten. At my grandpa's house, he and my dad would say state something similar to “you island boy now?” or “you only eat Filipino food, only eat adobo and pancit?” referring to my mother's side of the family. This ridicule always made me feel like I wasn’t the Asian boy they anticipated me to be. The conflict finally made me realize that I’m not gonna let anyone interfere with my cultural identity of being bi-religion and engage in the idea of

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