How Never Changed My Life

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It was June 8th, 2002 when I became a sister for the first time. At this point in time, I knew that my life was changed forever. I was four years old at the time. My dad was around for a little while before my brother was born then was back again after he was born. In a way, my brother had to grow up with split parents because the love was no longer there. A single mom raising two kids in ghetto apartments all alone. We were all alone until I was the age of 6, then my stepdad came into the picture. I was very confused because I thought my dad was going to walk back into the house any day. I always cried about why he was in the house instead of my father. I used to jump on his back, punch him and choke him in hopes that he would leave and my …show more content…

One day I got on my bike and decided to go with my dad to the laundry mat which was behind the building we lived in. He came out and we began to head towards the laundry mat, but he had forgotten something that he needed in the house so he said, “stay right here I’ll be back I need to grab something”. I stayed outside riding my bike on the same sidewalk that I always rode around in which was in front of the house. Only this time it was different when my dad went back into the house to get what he needed one of the neighbors had let their pit bull out of the house by accident. They had been teaching this dog to be a fighter and when it got out it came after me. I had no idea what was going on because my back was turned and I was riding the opposite way. The pit ran towards me bit my jacket, dragged me off the bike and bit the back of my thigh. I screamed for help and the owners of the dog came out and grabbed their dog and my parents came out to get me and take me inside to clean the spot where I was bitten. My parents were furious about me getting bit by this dog. The owners of the dog did not say anything at that moment in time, instead, they took their dog back inside of their apartment then thought it was okay to just walk into our home to apologize. My parents being as pissed off as they were almost going off on the owner for walking in as if it were there’s. I was never scared of dogs even after an attack like that. This experience led me to see the horrible things owners do to their dogs and why so many people fear pit bulls. I wanted to change that experience for others and I decided to get a pit bull myself to show that if you care for your dog they will care for others as well. My pit has never hurt a soul, never will she hurt anyone either. The moral of this story was

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