That’s why they say never believe everything you hear. My overall paper is about how betrayal, lies, and jealousy can turn your life upside down and have individuals doing things they may regret. Betrayal can cause a person problems such as separation of families and friends, unexpected deaths, or lost of trust. On a daily basis people are betrayed, hurt and lied from people they have developed a close bond with. They lie and hurt the people that they will need when everything gets tough.
Generally speaking lying in a relationship is frowned upon, the severity of the lie adds to the lack of principle. When you lie in a relationship you harm the other person which is what I find makes it unethical. 3. I don’t think it is unethical to lie to get out of an unpleasant situation. People lie all the time by saying they are busy to get out of certain plans.
In order to lie to the spouse and cheat on marriage vows, betray a spouse’s trust, and risk lo... ... middle of paper ... ...f-esteem tend to think their partner love them less than they really do, or fall out of love with them. It also can cause the spouse to stop communicating with his or her partner. The lack of communication that results can destroys a relationship in many different of ways. They stop talking as often as they use too he or she also thinks that their partner come frustrated with him or her because she feels he does understand and support another. But in a relationship that lacks discussion, resentment grows like a virus.
An abusive relationship carries not only the burden of being manipulated, but also creates a whole different person. Victims may see their relationship as intimate and believe they are in love, but some people cannot see past the good experiences. Relationship abuse, no matter the number of times that it occurs, is never okay. People are suffering from abuse within their relationships everyday. Americans need to become more aware of how their partner is treating them, and how they are treating their partner.
It’s an unending cycle. Cheating can cause a mental breakdown. It affects how the person feels about themself, as they start to believe that they are not good enough because you went out to find what he or she couldn’t give you. It can make your partner have suicidal thoughts because pain may differ from person to person. Not everyone might respond the same way to an unfaithful partner.For Example, A married woman expects her husband to be loyal and a married man expects the same because the moment they said “Yes I do”, they made a commitment to be together and not let temptation bring them
What does that mean? When a partner in a relationship makes the decision to be unfaithful, it hurts the significant other to the point that they lose their self- identity. The partner may start to question who they are or what they believe. They'll start to blame themselves for their significant other cheating. Saying they aren't good enough for that person or that they haven't been doing enough to ensure their happiness.
People who feel they are constantly being criticized may also criticize everything and everyone around them. They might choose to go their own way because they rule and it’s their way or the highway. They don’t realize when they have done wrong when they crash and burn, yet they still blame others because they think they have no other options. The longer the harsh criticism continues, the more people lose sight of anything positive in their lives. People enslaved to their negative thoughts are selfish, very self-cons... ... middle of paper ... ...his life.
But the truth is that almost all relationships won’t last forever. A few reasons relationships fall apart are if one partner cheats, they lose interest in each other, lack of communication which causes problems, if you try to change someone and it backfires, and if you hide something you should have told the other person and then they find out about it later. In a relationship you can tell when you’re losing interest in each other. Some signs are that you don’t talk much with each other, you don’t spend time together anymore instead its spent with your friends away from home. Some signs to tell if the other person in the relationship is cheating is by the person starts to come home from work later then they usually do, they start to smell like perfume that neither of you have, when you confront them about cheating they get all nervous and deny it, when you ask them why they’ve been coming home late from work lately they makeup stupid excuses.
Also, we can project our insecurities on our relationships; we do this unconsciously when we feel that we are not good enough or unable to fulfill our partner’s expectations in the relationship, and do this in many different ways. I once was in a situation, one I’m confident most of us have been in, where my partner accused me of cheating and was very adamant about this. In addition, there seemed to be no way to assure her of any other reality. I later came to find out that she was the one being unfaithful during this period of time. Shortly afterward I came to the conclusion that she was projecting her guilt on our relationship, and that was the reason why she was convinced that I was being unfaithful.
The experiences that have occurred make a person feel that fear to dare to do something that could interfere with being a person or give up very soon. Many times the low self-esteem makes you stop trusting yourself and what you expect from life as if becoming an apathetic person. The attitude in life becomes a