Honesty

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“Honesty is the best policy”. This is an old cliche that everyone has probably heard thousand times both at school and home since we were young. In some school, it is written on the wall in a corner of the school so students will see it everyday. The reason why adults keep repeating this cliche is because they want to educate their children that honesty is an extremely important value that impacts our daily lives in a significant way such as building close and stable relationship with other people. However, as we grow up, it is not hard to realize that there is less to almost none people will mention this cliche in our group. Does it mean that we are old enough to know to behave appropriately without being reminded or we simply know that honesty …show more content…

Everyone is busy keeping up their own business regardless at schools, workplaces or dealing with family and friends’ issues. Being honest is really a good way to save your time and focus on more important stuff because you can just behave and present who you really are. In contrast, telling lies means that you have to create a different you that live in a different world, perhaps you do this to impress other people or get away of trouble, but it surely takes a lot of effort and time to make people believe the lies. Most of the time, it does not take long to expose yourself in front of people whom you lie to since it is really difficult to maintain a lie without making more lies. For example, a young, financially unstable guy who wants to court a beautiful girl in his class might borrow a car from his best friend and spend all of his weekly expenses in order to have a dinner with the girl in a fancy Italian restaurant that he will never go in his life. The guy thinks that by doing all that things, he will be able to impress the girl and win her heart. However, all of us can guess how the girl will react to this relationship after she finds out the truth since he has been cheating her from the beginning and it will be hard for her to put trust on him in the future. On the other hand, his dishonesty of his financial ability not only ruins his relationship but also costs him a fortune that he can only afford to eat bread for a certain period of

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