History of the Marriage during the Edo Period
The Edo period lasted from the year 1615 to around 1868 and it was under the firm administration of the Tokugawa military government. In this period the marriages were arranged based on political, military and wealth inclinations. Provincial leaders; daimyô and the shogunate; military leaders or commanders were needed to arrange the weddings of the same category of persons. The weddings held in this period were carried out using rules and regulations based on the Muromachi-period which existed between 1392 and the year 1573 (Bincsik). However, the weddings were held during the day unlike in the Muromachi-period when they were held during the night. The weddings during this period were held by people of the same social standing or status (Bennett).
During the Edo period monogamy was the order of the day amongst the aristocrats and the samurai. Marriage partners were usually sought from the same social status among the different castes. Marriage amongst the provincial leaders or the shogunal leaders was sought from the leaders of the day. The weddings normally happened between two parties who were handpicked by the parents. Therefore, marriages amongst two willing parties were rare. In the Edo era suicide and divorce were common for young people
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This lower status or the commoners’ people would at time meet their spouses in local festivals which were normally held on the village level. In such cases the parties did require permission from their parents to wed as they progressed through the acquaintance stages before becoming engaged to one another. Divorce and suicide in this category of people was rare unlike those in the arranged weddings categories. This is because the two betrothed people came to know each other through exchange of letters and other approaches
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Marriages during the Renaissance shared common customs such as “crying of the banns” ceremonies, a dowry or gift for the husband’s family, special clothes, and a wedding feast. Commonly, marriages were arranged although Shakespeare’s was not. William Shakespeare and Anne Hathaway followed some traditional wedding customs and disregarded others.
Before the eighteenth century, marriage was far less complicated. Verbal consent and consumation constituted legal marriage: "once the knot was tied by such verbal exchanges it could not be undone: a valid marriage was technically indissoluble. Such vows could be made, moreover, by boys the age of fourteen and girls of twelve" (Outhwaite xiii).
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Every culture has marriage rituals that help differentiate them from each other. Traditions and customs in ancient Roman wedding etiquette was not very different from bridal etiquette today. Their wedding customs have actually set the basis for many modern weddings today. However, there were some customs that were very important to the Romans that do not completely relate to modern customs. An engagement ring, the choice of which date and location, the dressing of the bride, and the legalizing of the marriage itself were all important to the Ancient Roman culture.
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In past generations, marriage was valued, and the couple knew that hard work and dedication were vital to
Marriages were arranged. Because girls lived such sheltered lives, they usually had never even met the men their fathers agreed for them to marry. Men were mostly in their twenties when they got married, the girls were usually 15.
Marriage occurs after a partner is selected. In history a person’s marriage partner was selected by their parents. The bride and groom would not have a say in the issue, their father would generally set up an arrangement for the marriage of his daughter dealing with the head of the other family. The girl’s family would seek a husband for his dau...