“A father may turn his back on his child, brothers and sisters may become enemies, husbands may desert their wives and vice versa, but a mother’s love endures through all”, as once said by Washington Irving. A mother endures a lot of pain throughout her life from the moment her child is in the womb to her death bed. Nothing in the world can repay the sacrifices mothers have made, which make them one of a kind. The archetype of a mother is always portrayed in characters as someone who makes sacrifices, has unconditional love, and protects their child.
Mothers make sacrifices without thinking twice for the well being of their child which is showed in Room, the documentary of Jaycee Lee Dugard and in the The Help. As portrayed in Room by Emma Donoghue, the mother of Jack, Ma, sacrificed her safety in order to help her son Jack escape the 5 years of imprisonment in the shed and she ultimately succeeded. “I think that was Outside I saw, Outside is real and so bright”, Jack finally escaped and found help to save his mother. A similar incident appeared in the documentary of Jaycee Lee Dugard who was kidnapped at the age of eleven and raped. Jaycee Lee Dugard gave birth twice, and for the betterment of her children’s lives, Jaycee sacrificed her safety in order to escape. The children of ‘Ma’ and Jaycee Lee gave the mothers hope to continue surviving after the traumatic incidents. Sacrifice is also shown in the movie The Help where the African American women sacrifice a lot for little pay to provide for their family and children. This can be seen in modern times as well where women do whatever it takes to raise their children. It goes to show sacrifice is a must when it comes to motherhood.
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Presenting the story from a third person perception and having the narration by the mother or “Mama” gives the story great relevance to real life situations that ha...
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