Gender Differences

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Gender Differences

I was surprised finding out that the topic for our paper was about our feelings of belonging to the other gender. I think the title of the book "Men are From

Mars, Women are From Venus" by John Gray applies to how different men and women are in

their attitudes, feelings and lifestyles. This experience for me will be enjoyable

for me since I have never thought what it would be like to be a female and also to hopefully give me a better insight on a few questions that have interest me about women since I was a little kid.

Both, men and women, are constantly concerned about looking "good" even though they are physically different. In order to look appealing to others, men are supposed to be big, strong, and athletic, whereas women are supposed to be thin, pretty, and big-breasted.

I often wonder why we put so much emphasis on the way a person looks. I think females feel more of the pressures of looking "good". In the past, I've talked to some of my girlfriends and they told me that the pressure and competition they are faced with is stressful and painful. I told them that I am not too critical when checking out girls and when it comes to seeing other males bigger or stronger than myself, that I don't feel too much pressure of trying to look better than them. I am rather more concerned of my own health and ways to improve it. I was really surprised when they told me that other girls are the ones who usually criticize or pressure them. When I was aware of this, I did notice, at times, while walking around casually with my girl friends, when they weren't looking appropriate, would get stares, hisses or comments from other females. I was even surprised when I heard my girlfriends talking about other girls right in front of me, even though most of these times I didn't notice anything wrong

or different about the other girls they were talking about. From this observation, I think the pressure of always looking good would be greater if I was to be a female.

I would always try to look good and to please others. Girls, I think, are faced with

enormous pressures to look good. Television, for example, almost never features old,

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