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In chapter 7, Tambu discusses to the readers that Lucia and Maiguru were both right about having the meeting with the men. Lucia proposed to join the men as they are talking about her so that she can have the free will to defend herself and help make a decision about the affair and the pregnancy. Maiguru suggested that we stay out of it because she believes that it’s really none of her business. However, while the trial is happening, Tambu also explains to the reader how women and mere reflections. Based on what is expected in the African culture and what we’ve read in the book, I believe that Tambu is saying that the woman is a “reflection” of the man. Because of the “reflection”, there is a sense of power because Babamukuru and the men of the family are giving limitations and restriction to the women of the family. Similar to what is happening in the book, it is also happening to women in this country and how there are limitations and reflections of women that represents the man and how is she is represented in general.
According to Tambu’s description, whatever the woman does in public it is a representation of the man. This method is sort of like how children are treated and how the behavior of the child is a representation of the parents. This is why I believe the men are discussing alone for what the woman has done. She did something wrong, and like parents or someone with high authority, the men debated on what to do with the situation. I also feel like it even effect woman’s success. For example, earlier in the book, Tambu describes her aunt to educated and highly intelligent, but she is actually entrapped in her marriage for her success in education is a reflection on Babamukuru. That’ one of the main reasons why Maiguru ...

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...ly making money just as well as the men are.
In conclusion, Tambu and the other women are being trapped in a male dominated society and are reflections of the men of the family. With the case of Takesure and Lucia, Lucia got the most heat because she is a woman and is “misbehaving” as a “good woman”. Because of what is happening, Lucia feels that she should defined herself, but the men and some of the women don’t think that it’s a good idea for it is none of her concerns. Agreeing with Tambu, there needs to be a mixture of men and women discussing the affair and pregnancy, but it is semi impossible when the men are using their egos to create limitations for the women. Similar to the book, there are women in different cultures who are facing this issue with America. Also because of the media and the advertisements, we are seeing some of these things as the norm.

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