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Friends

Friends are the pearls of our life. This word bears its great meaning only to those who could understand the greatness of its meaning. Its some thing sacred, it needs to be cherished and build up for many years with much care. Goran Stojanov once said, "One should always take care when making a choice of a friend-as the friends are the ones you pick by yourself." My opinion is a bit different than Gorans, I prefer to say, "Friends come and go, but with the precious few we shall live our lives happily." I specially agree that friends come in to our life spontaneously. Therefore, there is little more than picking a part. Making Friends is the process, which is a very unique one. It depends on the person one is trying to become friends with, it depends on one's gender, it depends on one's age, but most importantly it depends on one's own personality. It's a complex, magical process, which must contain fluid that will start spinning the wheel.

And when the process starts from the point of "I know him" to "he is my friend" you must go through several steps, such as: spending much time with that person, receiving and giving advice, help, mutual sacrifices, sharing secrets and having many common views about life in general.

As an essential part in our life, friends should be treated with the biggest respect. They are the ones on which we relay on. So we should think before we speak, because to lose a friend is an enormous disaster. There is a saying, "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me." It means that a person can harm another person physically by punching or kicking him, but an individual will never hurt him physically with words. A truer way of saying it would be, "Sticks and stones can break my ...

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...pression" You may love you girl friend, but never place her over you best friend, because when she will left you, your best friend will stay." It means that no matter how much you love your girl friend, you should respect your friends even more. Best friend is like brother. Always there for us, trying to help, understand, to make us feel better, never to judge, always beside us. With out a best friend, person can't be fulfilled and happy.

Popular wisdom says it that," You judge a man by his friends." It can be said that friends are the persons, the ones who are making our life: exciting, interesting, fulfilled with joy. They are always here, when we need them. And the relationship is mutual. We must give in order to receive. And if we are a truly friends we will not even notice our sacrifice. Friendship is all natural harmless process of sharing beautiful things.

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