Friar Lawrence Failure

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Through reading the play “Romeo and Juliet” composed by William Shakespeare an important character named Friar Lawrence will come into a position where he will soon assist Romeo and Juliet becoming married. Romeo is from the family of the Montagues while his love Juliet is of the Capulet family. The conflict is that the families battle each other and, in order for the couple to get married Friar Lawrence the priest must marry them in secret. Friar Lawrence encourages Romeo to continue his eagerness with Juliet although not knowing he is not helping the situation because he is promoting Romeo’s rebellious behavior of not beholding the laws that prohibit his relationship with Juliet. If Friar Lawrence did not marry Romeo and Juliet they would …show more content…

Following another failure, he is trying to keep a positive relationship with Romeo hence when he is counseling Romeo it is not beneficial because it only makes Romeo more of an incompompable child. Why he is wanting Romeo to look up to him is undiscovered, maybe because Romeo is Catholic and the priest is supposed to give good advice and prayre, Romeo respects him, leading to the thought that Lawrence is the most reliable resource since he is under god's …show more content…

Young men's love then lies
Not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes.
Jesu Maria, what a deal of brine
Hath washed thy sallow cheeks for Rosaline!
How much salt water thrown away in waste
To season love, that of it doth not taste!
The sun not yet thy sighs from heaven clears,
Thy old groans ring yet in my ancient ears.
Lo, here upon thy cheek the stain doth sit
Of an old tear that is not washed off yet.”
(2.3.69-80)
In this passage Friar Lawrence officially announces Romeo and Juliet husband and wife after he agrees to Romeo that it will happen. This is where the conflict reaches the first climax because Friar Lawrence becomes a jar-head by unconsciously creating future relationship problems in this marriage. One to include is the creation of a microcosm in which the reality of life is cut off by their passion for love. Soon to be expected their transient relationship will become a mess between the two families and keeping it a secret at the same time will be a challenge.
These violent delights have violent ends
And in their triumph die, like fire and powder,
Which as they kiss consume. The sweetest honey
Is loathsome in his own deliciousness
And in the taste confounds the

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