First Impressions

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As human beings we without noticing judge others before even talking to the person based on their clothes, hygiene, and body language. A very informative article from Scientific American website states “When we meet a person, we immediately and often unconsciously assess him or her for both warmth (whether they are friendly/ well intentioned) and competence (whether they have the ability to deliver on those intentions).” This proves that first impressions are especially important being a leader. After reading the first passage about John I pictured him as being a very positive person due to the fact that it states he “basks in the sun as he walked” (First Impressions 2014). John as an extrovert is an outgoing person that has a very optimistic mindset, and is a very career oriented individual. John seemed to strike up a conversation with almost anyone he knew wherever he went. Whether it was just an acquaintance, friend, or a girl he just met the other night. I gathered that John was a career oriented person due to the fact that he left the office to get stationary and then returned back to the office after retrieving the stationary. There are some actions that could be seen as negative. For example, John seems to take his time when getting the stationary. He doesn’t go out of his way to catch the clerk’s eye; he just continues to talk with an acquaintance until the clerk notices he might need help. Because of his outgoing personality John was able to talk to three different people during his errand for work, his friend, and two acquaintances. The trip to get stationary seems long, and drawn out because of his conversations throughout the process, and his inability to concentrate at the task at hand. Which was simply get the s... ... middle of paper ... ...stationary. John seemed to take his time by “basking in the sun as he walked” (First Impressions, 2014). Nowhere does it say he was in a hurry or felt rushed to get the stationary hence all of his conversations throughout the scenario. In summary these scenarios teach you that first impressions can be viewed differently just by looking at them from another angle. Also words and actions wrote in a different context can really change your view or opinion of a person. John from the first scenario leads a very outgoing lifestyle as an extrovert, whereas the second entry John leads a very secluded life and prefers to be all alone for the most part. Works Cited First impressions. (April 18th, 2014). Retrieved from http://nwlink.com/donclark/leader/impress.html Mixed impression. (April 17th, 2014). Retrieved from http://scientificamerican.com/article/mixedimpressions

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