The first being that my boyfriend and I broke up. I know it seems so stupid, but I let go of my best friend of two years. I hated making that decision, but it made me sit down and think about my life. I like to hold onto people and spare their feelings, even if mine get hurt in the process. Even if I know the person holds me back, I have a connection with them.
We had been dating for almost ten months, but broke up for three days in May after a fight. When we calmed down from the fight we got back together, but what I did not know until June was that in those three days, he was with another girl. Now I know that we were broken up so I might have just gotten angry that he didn’t tell me, but that wasn’t all he did. We had another fight in June before our anniversary and instead of trying to work it out with me, he went to that same girl and cheated on me. So I broke up with him and honestly, I was okay.
In most situations it wouldn’t have been a big deal but that night I would soon realize that my life was going to spiral out of control and I was going to witness a domino effect like no other. I have to start from the beginning to tell the end. Casey and I met in fifth grade we instantly hit it off and became extremely close rather soon. She told me about her life and I soon found out she didn’t have the best family.
The breakup came out of no where and she was not expecting it. At one point they had talked about taking a break, but it was brief and they both decided against it. However, she did mention that he was the reason she was here. He felt it was time for her to take control of her life again and be the person she was when she started seeing him. She admitted she knew she wasn’t the same either and when he said that she promised him to seek treatment.
She said that I was lying because I waited so long to say something, but it had only been about 4 months. The thing is a lot of people that go through anything like this do not go to authorities...they just try to forget it. She told me not to say anything to her boyfriend. This angered me the fact I told her which I was not planning on doing and she says I am a liar and to keep
After this event this couple hardly talked, became experts on avoiding each other, and grew distant. They then have a problem that ends up making them have to talk to each other more then they did. They are reminded about how they used to be and start to grow closer, revealing things about themselves. But then it all ends with Shoba telling her husband that she found an apartment. This stops the couple from getting closer.
I didn’t know how to help her through this difficult point in her life, which made me feel like a horrible best friend. The only thing I could do was encourage her. Every day I would ask her if she was okay and all she would say is “I’m fine”. I tried for so long to get her to talk about what she was going through. Day after day, it became more exhausting trying to keep the same bond we had for seven years.
On the other hand, Laura was mocked for consider playing a sport in college by her sisters. This mockery effected Laura and made her decide not to play basketball in college or take it up as a profession. Psychosocial development progresses with time and experience. Before people can consider themselves as mature and mental developed they must live through different stages of life. These stages force them to cope with issues and difficult circumstances.
When I moved from New York to Texas I left behind the most important thing: love. I had been dating Franky for a year when I up and moved south. It was a really sad parting for us both, but we decided to continue our relationship as long-distance to see how it would work out. However, I knew deep down that it would not last very long. Long-distance relationships are hard, and the chances of them failing are great.
I was roughly four when their marriage fell apart. I don’t remember much other than to keep a small amount of things so moving was easier, and my mom would cry all the time because my father would hurt her. When she finally got the courage to leave him, we moved into my grandparent’s