Instead, they are trained to become technicians, specialists, scientists, lawyers, etc. They are rarely taught morals or community values. Family structure is the only source to stop the children from becoming assimilated and acculturated. Parents expect children to maintain the original culture and traditional customs, in order to maintain their identities. Taking advantage of the little time to be together in the evening, or at night, Vietnamese parents try to motivate and sometimes to discipline their children, but the more they discipline, the more they face, because the law in this country does not permit parents to physically hurt their children.
For example, Carrie is very promiscuous and finds out that she is pregnant, so she goes and has an abortion. Next time Carrie finds out that she has HIV, well she can't pay someone to get rid of her problem so she has to deal with it. Why shouldn't she have to deal with the fact of being pregnant? There are many other options to killing an innocent human: adoption or raising the child with the help of parents. However, some girls are forced to have an abortion.No matter the reason someone has for an abortion, it is still cruel.
The average woman comes up with at least three excuses for having an abortion; ¾ say they if they have the baby it will interfere with work or school, another ¾ say they can’t afford this child and ½ say they don’t want to be a single parent or they’re having too many complications with their significant other. What if you were one of these woman coming up with an excuse as to why you can’t have this child? Would you really want to go through with killing it instead of having it? Even though it is wrong to have woman continue pregnancy when rape or incest has occurred or if this pregnancy affects the woman’s health and well-being, it is also wrong to take someone’s life from them. I am against this because back in 2008 approximately 1.21 million abortions took place in the US.
Women would feel betrayed and scared of their own body, and they would still carry through with the pregnancy and holding onto the fear and betrayal (Meehan). To begin, women never wanted the pregnancy in the first place. They shouldn't be assaulted and “forced” to have the child. The mother would become afraid of their own child. When choosing to keep the baby after an assault, it can make the victim feel isolated.
She decides she doesn’t want to keep the baby; she has an abortion because the idea of raising a child of her rapist is too painful for her to cope with. Pro-choice defenders take sympathies to this woman while she then gets called a murderer by pro-life supporters. Abortions sometimes results in the woman being harassed because of the choice she has made about her own body. That’s what pro-life supports. Often time’s situations like this turns into harassment which can be considered to be part of anti-abortion violence1.
If anyone were to ask what they felt once they gave birth to their child what they felt, the mother would say she felt so much love she never thought she could have for one person(s). Women who experience abortion mourn the death of their child afterwards. The abortion process is harmful to the women (Millar, 501). Though not really recorded on their emotional state, many woman find themselves depressed at the loss of their baby. Most women that chose to speak about their experience said they had suicidal thoughts after getting an abortion.
Now she is being punished for something she never wanted and tried in all her power to stop. She is forced into marriage early, takes a low paying job if she can find one and is forced to giv... ... middle of paper ... ...ntial mothers would most likely not choose abortion to begin with. Those who oppose abortion, will find cause to justify it under certain conditions, such as rape or endangerment of the mother’s life. But who draws the boundaries on when it’s right and when it’s wrong? Abortion is abortion, no matter what the circumstances may be.
They regret the mistakes they have made as a little girl. If only they didn’t make the mistake in the past, they would have a totally different fate then. Ruth’s life is much affected by her childhood memories with her mother LuLing. Whenever Ruth doesn’t obey her, LuLing threatens by saying, “Maybe I die soon!” (54), and “LuLing’s threats to die were like earthquakes” (54). Ruth’s childhood earthquakes caused Ruth to “think about death every day” (121).
Will she be denied her own innocence that 's been taken to the stupidity of the one individual that decided was fine to sexually assault her and bring a life into this world. Most women who do decide or forced to keep this child will most likely neglect this child. This here bring other problems to our society. There is a stipulation that in areas that abortion is denied that crime rate level is high, and the areas that there is an option, the rate is dramatically low. You ask why, well when parents neglect their child, they go out looking for answers and love.
This is so not true and no one should be able to call a mother a brutalizer. The mother undergoes abortion rather than putting her life into jeopardy or having her child go through a life time of problems. She shouldn’t be labeled as a brutalizer. There will be an effect on the victims like families, relatives and friends because they will feel really hurt seeing the baby suffering. The family would feel a physiological harm if they reject the mother’s opinion to go through abortion because of a health condition.