Family Theory And Demographics Of The Family Systems Theory

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Demographics
Tomica is a 36 year old female from Mobile, Alabama. Five years ago Tomica married Will (46 years old) who is also from Mobile. During their second year of marriages they gave birth to a baby girl name Braylee who is now 3 years old. In the future both parent would love to have more children.
Relation to Class Material
When reflecting on this interview and comparing it to the class materials, the information that is given best relates with the topics of attachment, discipline, and authoritative style. For any family having discipline is something that allows parents to give guidance to the child. In this family guidance and discipline is important, just as important as any other thing that Tomica and Will can teach Braylee. According
The Family System Theory is a model that explains the daily functions that takes place in a family. (6, 7) When reflecting on the interview and comparing it to the Family System Theory, one must realize that communication, rules, boundaries, and family roles are what makes this family a great example of this theory.
Communication is important for any relationship be it personal or business. One thing that I have noticed about Will and Tomica’s family, is that their communication as a whole is very profound. During the early years in their marriage, Will and Tomica would communicate regarding having children. They prepared and planned everything out, allowing their communication to grow beyond the past. Their communication also allowed them to somewhat of an understanding of what was to come next within their daughter Braylee, they knew who was going to take care of her and as well as Tomica. According to Tomica “my husband (Will) cared for the infant and me after I got home… He took off of work for about three weeks to
When deciding on which rules are best described for this family, you have to look at the age of the child. Since Braylee is only 3 years old, explicit rules would relates best towards this family. With explicit rules they are “known, stated, and outlined clearly so that all people in the family know and understood they.” (56) For Tomica and Will explaining why certain situations are wrong and right to Braylee is more important than for them to just yell and be upset at her. These rules give Braylee the opportunity to learn from her mistakes can learn the best way to go about

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